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emotionally, phisically and mentally drained

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suzieeee1 · 15/09/2021 09:48

hi everyone, its my first post here and tp be honest i didnt know where to turn to. so first a little back story. myself and my husband have been together 15 years married for 5. 2 beautiful girls who if wasnt here right now i dont think i would be. so ever since my 2nd girl was born 4 years ago my husband has become more and more moody, angry etc. so much so i literallt feel like the old me has gone and ive been replaced by a zombie. im phisically and mentally drained. he calls me names, has mood swings like a teenager going through puberty. our sex life isnt grest due to the fact i cant stand to sleep with someone who treats me like shit. if im on my period he sleeps downstairs on the sofa and wont speak to me becuase he knows we wont be getting intermet. his emotions are up and down like a yoyo and i cant keep up. one seconds were having a nice hug watching a movie or something and im absolutely shattered 2 kids, working full time and doing everything in the house. he mentions sex and i say no then he pushes me off and ignores me, sometimes this can last for days. he doesnt help at all in the house. in 15 years he has never once cooked a dinner, bathed the children or even turnt the washing machine on. it was my birthday 2 weeks ago and not even a card :( and then he ignored me for the whole day. i have no family close by and no friends becaue ive become so intreverted i have no one. after the birth of my second it was very tramatic and i was in hospital for 2 weeks after the birth and didnt get intermate with him for a 8 months. which to him was the crime of the century. its always my fault and he can do no wrong. i literally feel like im stuck and i cant get out 😭

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MadamMaltesers · 15/09/2021 17:21

u poor poor thing pls reach out to women's aid

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