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Help please! DH & I are splitting up and I have no clue about what I need to do re money

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Hogu · 14/09/2021 12:23

We've had problems for a couple of years and I've just reached the end. I can't cope with him and how he treats me anymore so I've asked him to leave.
Problem is that in a stay at home mum with a 2 year old.
DH works for my dad and pays the bills & mortgage etc.

What am I entitled to and is there a way of getting money as he said he's not going to give me any. Mainly to be awkward and also a way of trying to get em to change my mind about splitting etc.

I'm worried about money and the mortgage etc. I don't even know where to start or go for for help.

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Thecrimsonbutterfly · 14/09/2021 12:24

www.entitledto.co.uk/

This calculator is pretty spot on

Boonlark · 14/09/2021 12:32

He will have to pay you child maintenance, and given that your dad is his boss, that'll make getting the right figures easier. Do watch out for him demanding 50/50 time with your dc to avoid paying child maintenance

You'll be able to get help from universal credit, and you'll also need to start looking for a job. Any assets (incl house, pensions, shares, savings) will be put into the marital pot to be shared between you. You're likely to get a larger share if you're the main carer and on a lower income.

gardeninggirl68 · 14/09/2021 12:51

yes, childcare and a job would be my first thoughts

as well as the mortgage. and then child support.

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