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What petty resentment are you holding on to years later?

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ClumpingBambooIsALie · 10/09/2021 11:37

Mine is that I was put in for Foundation level GCSE Double Science despite having good grades on my coursework, only found out when I got into my exam and saw the Foundation paper in front of me, and was therefore capped at a CC. Twenty years ago 😂

What's yours?

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ThirtyCharacterUsernamesOnly30 · 13/09/2021 21:59

When I was about 12 or 13, I returned my books to the library. This was when you had to take them up to the desk and the librarian would scan them for you. I never got a receipt (as they didn't do them) and had returned books lots of times before without a problem. On my next visit, a few days later, I wanted to borrow some more books, so took them up to the desk. The librarian told me I had a book overdue. I asked what it was and she said it was one of the ones I'd returned on my previous visit. So I explained I'd returned it. She clearly didn't believe me and then I remembered that I'd seen it on the shelf when I was browsing for books before I came up to the desk. So I told her and then went and got the book, she looked inside it (I guess in case there was more than one of the same book) then scanned it and it was the book I had already returned! She then got huffy and said, 'Well, that's funny that you knew where to find it!' Her tone was insinuating that I hadn't returned it properly and had just put it back on the shelf. It really pissed me off, because I was in that library a lot, and always returned my books on time. Being, the meek 12 year old that I was, didn't say anything, but just thought of lots of stuff I should have said on the way home!

TheSecondMrsAshwell · 14/09/2021 10:09

@Notbitter– You’ll enjoy this one then.

Many, many jobs ago, I dealt with listed buildings and would often have to deal with members of the public in varying states of apoplexy. Quite often, I would be a bit tongue-tied – was only in my mid 20s and some of the aggression was pretty awful.

Well one day, I got a call about a dry stone wall. The caller sounded rather like the former headmaster in your story. To say he was underwhelmed with the listing was putting it mildly. He sarcastically called me “deeeeear” at the end of every sentence and was just generally nasty and patronising.

One of his issues was the phrase “sneck stone” in the description. In this instance, a sneck stone is a small squared off stone jammed into a gap in the dry stone, filling the gap and making sure the wall is stable. I believe that it is Scottish in origin*, meaning “filled”. The only place I’ve heard “sneck” used other than listing was in Upstairs Downstairs, where Hudson tells one of the maids to make sure the windows are “well snecked” i.e. the curtains were properly drawn so no light showed. Anyway, not a common word in London/South East. Had he rung up to ask what a sneck stone up and not been such a twat, I would have told him. But no, he carried on.

“I’ve no idea what a sneck stone is, deeeeeear.”

I explain.

“Well that not in my Webster’s dictionary.”

Gotcha.

“I’m not surprised, Sir. Webster’s is published in America and is an American English dictionary. It is in the Oxford English Dictionary.”

“Flaaaahflaaaahflaffthurrrrhooofle.”

“Indeed, Sir. Is there anything I can help you with?”

So satisfying.

*someone will probably come along and explain. Just checked Websters-Merriam and it defines sneck as “latch”.

SantaSue · 14/09/2021 10:25

Same as you OP, I was capped for GCSE IT so I could only get a C. When I argued it the teacher said he already had too many to put in the higher level and I was good at everything else so I could get my As and Bs elsewhere.
What made it worse was I was the only pupil who was nice to him. Other children used to lock him out of the classroom or lock him in the cupboard but I would unlock the door for him. I never bothered after that Grin

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Ormally · 14/09/2021 11:35

Another Home Economics one.
One of 2 detentions I got, I think. Cooking in pairs, me and one of the most sensible girls in the class, and we both had a clue about cooking as well.
I was standing to the right of an oven doing something on a work top. Partner opened the door (hinged downwards), slid out the baking tray and it caught the edge of my calf above a sock, giving me a little burn. Not too bad but hung around a bit.
We both got detention for 'messing about'. Detention task was to clean all the ovens. Weirdly, I feel there was a little more sense in that than writing lines.

peaceanddove · 14/09/2021 12:03

DD2 got 3 Level 6s in her Yr 6 SATs. At her primary any pupil who got even just one Level 6 always got a special mention at the Leaver Assembley.

On the day of DD2's Leaver Assembley the HT got muddled and distracted by a pigeon flying into the hall window, and totally forget to mention DD's achievement. DD2 wasn't remotely bothered but I was raging. Fucking pigeon.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 15/09/2021 17:18

Salvation Army Sunday School (1970s)
We were put into groups according to age (about 4 in each with a SA leader) Older sister in the rom next door

One of the Leaders shrieking at me "Six.......SIX......I thought you were seven^ .
They had moved me up a group
They knew my date of birth

And they had a book and a rubber stamp to mark when we attended . But if you didn't take in collection money , no mark put iin Hmm

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