It's...another red flags one

[Yummypumpkin]

Last night I ended a texting 'relationship' and though that is done, would be interested in thoughts.

We met through social media.

Messages gradually increased in terms of number, frequency, level of personal detail.

I asked to meet. He said the activity concerned wasn't possible for him, didn't suggest anything else.

After a month of messaging and after suggesting meeting and being put off, I blocked him. He'd also in the last 5 days not contacted me.

He also posted a pic on social media of him doing the activity he said he couldn't 5 days after me suggesting we do it together.

He had seemed very sincere and I appreciate there are nuances, but this to me seems like a timewaster and probably one with a girlfriend!

Not so much a red flag than him simply not being interested, or not single.

Yes. You're quite right!

No red flags he probably had a number of women he was contacting and perhaps decided after awhile that he preferred one over the others.

Or he is testing the water to see what opportunities are out there or even just likes to see if women would still be interested in him.

Thanks. Yes. His behaviour wasn't bad per se. It was reasonable. I read too much into some messages. We never met. I've unblocked him but we are no longer connected. I can move on.