Early this morning, 'D'H comes downstairs nakid, highly aggravated, and asks / tells / commands me to go round to the nextdoor house and get them to turn down their stupidly loud music. When I say early, I was up but he was still in bed.
As I think stupidly loud music is antisocial at any time of the day but particularly early morning or late at night, I do so. I bang on their door to get their attention and ask that the volume be reduced. I get a mouthful of abuse from them for this but at least they do reduce the volume.
I return to the house, advise 'D'H that I've done this but that I don't like being his mouthpiece because it paints me as the crazy adult in the house. No mind, he's so aggravated that he says he'll get dressed and go round there to have it out because hs'e not having me painted as the person with the problem.
Well, it's thirty minutes later. I've got our child up and dressed. 'D'H has gone downstairs, made himself a coffee (not me), and is now sat snoozing on the sofa. He has not been anywhere near next door. He's lost the momentum and therefore lost the moment. So there you go, I'm now the crazy neighbour who hates music.
Is this enough to LTB? [light hearted]