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Trying to get child to sleep

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Autumnally · 06/09/2021 01:10

I have a 7yo who is not great at staying in his bed. This past month we have really cracked him going to sleep alone, and sometimes he makes it through til 4am or so before coming to find me in my bed. Recently it’s gone back to midnight/1am which really destroys my sleep. So right now I’m sat in his room having marched him back to bed. I’m so fucking exhausted and I’m sat here in the dark knowing that this will stop me sleeping when I do go back to bed and knowing that it may not be successful or may take ages. And it’s his first day of year 3 tomorrow so I’m feeling pretty mean, but if he comes to my bed he’s going to smother me by being too close and touching my hair. It’s driving me bonkers. Some bright spark is going to ask me why I’ve let it get to this point, but even though he’s always been a terrible sleeper, there have been better periods. He has ASD so expectations around sleep etc differ from other kids. But OMG I just need some sleep right now.

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Autumnally · 07/09/2021 20:44

Thank you. Still unbearably hot. And lots of background noise with windows open. So not holding my breath.

Turns out he did bother DH - clearly got the message that I would send him back to bed Grin

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Autumnally · 07/09/2021 20:44

Those of you with weighted blankets, they don’t seem very washable, how do you manage that?

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Bythebeach · 07/09/2021 21:45

Currently lying next to DS3……he’s struggling tonight. Stopped reading awhile ago and he is stressed today as he wants to sleep but overwrought after back to school which he finds unsettling.

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Autumnally · 07/09/2021 22:26

It’s awful when you want to sleep but can’t. I have that sometimes if I fall asleep putting the kids to bed, have to go straight to bed or I’m up half the night.

I had to stop lying next to my child because he suddenly became extra sensitive to me moving away from him and that woke him and stopped him sleeping. Many nights up til 10pm. Nightmare.

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Autumnally · 08/09/2021 02:51

I e just woken up and he’s in my bed 🙄 but he’s keeping away from me. I don’t think he woke me, but I’m very much awake now. sigh

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GrowThroughWhatYouGoThrough · 08/09/2021 03:29

Can you go and sleep in his bed if he's asleep so you can hopefully get some rest

Autumnally · 08/09/2021 03:35

I should, shouldn’t I?! I’m not awake because of him tonight though, just in overdrive thinking about some work stuff annoyingly.

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Bythebeach · 08/09/2021 06:24

Oh dear, hope you got back to sleep Autumnally. It’s awful stressing about stuff in the middle of the night.

Autumnally · 08/09/2021 06:26

Yeah I didn’t manage it annoyingly. But I do have a plan. And have mentally rehearsed a conversation with my boss several times over.

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