My DF has been in poor health for the last few years, most recently having been diagnosed with cancer and treated with both chemo and radiotherapy. The treatments went well but he was left with some side effects which caused a lot of pain.
Last week he went on a UK holiday and fell ill. He was rushed to the hospital near his holiday location in a lot of pain and two days later, yesterday, had surgery on a burst ulcer in his stomach. Recent news (via his partner) is that he has now developed a 'sepsis storm' and his organs are shutting down. He has been kept sedated and ventilated since the surgery.
Apparently he was asked if he would want to be resuscitated prior to the surgery. I don't imagine that's a good sign....
He's always fought through the ill health he's had but I'm worried this is pushing him too far and he's not strong enough to fight against it.
I don't expect any response but i thought it might help to write it down somewhere. It feels like it's all so unknown, I don't know all the facts and I'm scared he won't make it....