After posting on a thread a couple of months ago - tell me a secret - I admitted I wasn’t in love with my husband but I loved another man, (there was a reason for this) I was given some very blunt advice. Bit of backstory- I married my partner after being together 9 yrs, we had a daughter and he felt the need to be married, after only 14 months I caught him having an affair, there was also emotional abuse, we tried to work it out but 3 months later he walked out on us with no warning, he couldn’t cope with his own guilt and even went abroad for 10 months to avoid the marriage breakdown, leaving me to deal with everything. I moved on and was happily dating a guy that I fell in love with but knew it wasn’t anything more than a fling. 2 1/2 yrs after our split my husband begged for another chance to make a go of things, I was vulnerable after by dad passed away and stupidly agreed to take him back on the condition that he proved to me I could trust him again, we didn’t live together but he did nothing to get the relationship back on track and lo and behold I caught him out cheating again!
Just wanted to say Thankyou for the blunt advice that I was given as it make me open my eyes and realise what a mess my life had become. I’m now finding myself again and finally free from this useless waste of space - I don’t care that I’m single and nearly 50! I’m the happiest I’ve been in a long time, I don’t even know why I’m posting but I just want to shout it out that I’m now free from this and life will be so much better from now on!