I often see on threads here that people with low libido- should do something to "fix it". Do people not believe that low libido- can be normal? Or have no cause? What can I do to fix it? I've been to the GP and there's nothing medically wrong with me, I stopped hormonal contraception, relationship is good. This has been going on for a couple of years pre-DC and then beyond. I'm no longer breastfeeding. It's consistently low. We do have sex, but not frequently. I don't want it and having it more regularly doesn't change it- I've tried that following advice on here. I orgasm quickly but don't particularly enjoy sex because my head isn't really in to it. The sex is "good" from an objective stand point. DH is lovely and doesn't pressure me and is committed to helping sort this. We've done counseling and no issues were found, both in separate and couples. I'm now at a loss of what to do. Can you buy pills? I haven't always been like this, we've been together 16 years, this has been the last 7, though for 4 of those I've been either pregnant or breastfeeding.