This decision is too big. (I know it's not, probably a 1st world problem, but it seems big to me.)
I got divorced 5 years ago and whilst I've bought and maintain our house, taken my 3 dc abroad and on lots of camping holidays on my own, made umpteen decisions about so much and generally run my life pretty well, I am really struggling with this one. It seems huge. The ramifications of me getting it wrong and choosing something that doesn't suit us/ is a money pit and costs £££ all the time to keep going/impacts on our ability to get to work school and any social stuff are so big.
I have a VW Caravelle which I love. 7 flexible position seats, masses of boot space, generally reliable (although it is old hence the maintenance requirements, services and MOTs always end up costing £££s and I need to get something less needy)
What makes/models should I consider? Needs to cater for 4 people (me, two teens, fast growing weed of a 7 year old) dog, camping trips, tip runs and the like so it needs to have decent space. Ideally a few more seats than people as I do lots of shared runs to after school activities/pick friends up etc but this isn't a dealbreaker.
I can probably sell my T5 for about £8k. Would love another but they are so expensive at the moment so can't afford to get a newer one. And haven't any additional funds to add to it because of aforementioned maintenance using up all my sparse savings!!
Help me please Mumsnet!