Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

Facebook keyboard warriors !! Why do people do it???

11 replies

Oakleaf40 · 17/08/2021 16:28

Ok.. I have an issue with my Ex new partner.. Blocked on Facebook so she cant see my page and Vice versa.. However she is contently posting Memes and posts aimed at me... We share a fair few friends and they are not happy she is posting things that num1 I cannot see and secondly as a friend they feel I ought to know... which I get but I also don't want to know... but also feel like I'm being made to look a fool out of plus my kids can see... I have also asked the Ex to stop her but he cannot..she said she doesn't care.. I have confronted her before and said to speak to me directly if she's got a problem...

Advice on what to do please....

OP posts:
Winemewhynot · 17/08/2021 16:31

Is she 12?

There’s nothing you can do, just ignore it and don’t give her the reaction she’s looking for.

Skybluepinkgiraffe · 17/08/2021 16:33

Ignore it and tell your friends to stop telling you. You blocked her for a reason, so don't undermine that.

girlmom21 · 17/08/2021 16:38

Tell your friends you're not interested. It's that simple.

Oakleaf40 · 17/08/2021 16:50

Winemewhynot she's actually in her 50's .. its quite hilarious really as i do not want my EX back for a million dollars but she hates me for being his EX. LOL

OP posts:
FlibbertyGiblets · 17/08/2021 16:59

Your friends are not your friends. They are shit stirring horrorbags.

Tell them to pack it in or f off.

Unless you enjoy the attention, in which case crack on.

BornIn78 · 17/08/2021 17:01

Get some new friends instead of the shit stirrers you currently have.

Galassia · 17/08/2021 17:43

If you have friends in common then why aren’t they calling her out on it themselves and are just telling you?

Sounds like they are not your friends after all but are part of her ‘posse’ and are doing her dirty work.

Ditch and block all of them.

Winemewhynot · 17/08/2021 17:46

@Oakleaf40

Winemewhynot she's actually in her 50's .. its quite hilarious really as i do not want my EX back for a million dollars but she hates me for being his EX. LOL
Some people are sad like that. Don’t let her provoke you, tell your friends you’re not interested and ignore the unhinged bitch!
FionnulaTheCooler · 17/08/2021 17:48

Ignore her and tell your friends to do the same. She's obviously massively insecure and needs to get a grip but it isn't your problem.

Sn0tnose · 17/08/2021 17:58

Why are none of your mutual friends telling her to pack it in and behave herself? Why are they only interested in stirring up trouble between you?

If you react, you are going to make yourself look ridiculous by stooping to her level. You’re an adult. You won’t win, or make her regret behaving childishly. All that will happen is things will escalate and you’ll have an audience of people watching you lose all dignity.

She and her insecurities are irrelevant to you. You don’t want your ex back and how she feels about you simply doesn’t matter. Why would you care what she thinks about you? Ignore it. If your friends try to tell you, then interrupt them and tell them very firmly that what she’s saying and doing is of no interest to you.

Oakleaf40 · 17/08/2021 20:11

Sn0tnose Thank you all, I've always said to them I'm not interested in joining in these silly games, so told them not to do anything, I guess shes adopted the keep poking at me and she will get a response. I have never put anything on Facebook as I have more respect for myself, my friends just get super frustrated and want it all to stop. Was looking for advice and looks like I'm best to carry on doing what I have always done and ignore. Thank you all.

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page