Title is a bit rubbish but not sure what else to put. Been with husband for 17 years, a few years ago I found out he had been messaging other women online, never met them, I spoke to them and they told me this so was just pictures, calls, dirty talk, they asked to meet but he always put it off as he said he never wanted to. Anyway since then our marriage has improved, last year we had an argument and he went and stayed at a friends for a week. He joined a dating site and was talking to someone on there, I only found out a month ago as came across messages, again same sort of thing, pictures, calls, talking dirty but not meeting. I don't seem to be able to get past this or even know if I should. Can anyone give any advice. Thanks