16 week Pregnant and husband not supportive

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I am pregnant with my 4th and starting to show , my husband isn’t supportive of the idea of being a dad again and is always putting me down and criticising me ! I am just over 16 weeks pregnant and when I mention telling his parents he gets very defensive and won’t talk about anything baby related . I thought I might try and tell my oldest she is 6 and if looks could kill he was more defensive! I don’t know what to do , I feel I am in my own , only told one friend no one else knows and he was really mad with me ! Never felt so isolated and alone

Disappears for hours at a time goes out comes back late , normally once I’ve it the kids to bed then avoids me for rest of evening each night , this is the norm now ! Vasectomy ?? I have no idea what he’s thinking ? I think I now have to mentally prepare myself with going through labour alone , and perhaps being a Single mum ??

The bloke is trash. He’s abusing you. Read all your own posts.