Hello, I recently found out I’m pregnant. It’s still early days and I’ve only just turned ‘5 weeks’. I don't know where to turn, and these online forums have been helping so thought i'd post my own. Me and the father have had a casual online relationship, met up once and despite me being on the pill (and not taking any antibiotics!) fell pregnant. It’s understandably been a massive shock for us both. He has made it clear that he is not ready, but will support me regardless, although can’t see how continuing with the pregnancy would work with the distance, so is gearing towards abortion. I have always been fiercely pro-choice, but now faced with that decision don’t know how I could ever forgive myself if I had one. I’ve always wanted to be a mum. But equally, am I being selfish bringing a child into the world when the father is so unsure and where their parents would be living hundreds of miles apart. I own my own home and have a supportive family, but never saw myself as a single-parent (no one does) and just don’t know where to turn. Feeling very vulnerable and seeking any support anyone can offer. I’m 24 by the way. X