Should I let ex stay over ?

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Me and ex are still on talking terms etc.

So on Sunday we are meant to be going to the beach. I'm a bit worried about the driving he will have to do. It's 90 min to come and pick us up. 90 Min to the beach . 90 Min to drop us off then 90 drive back to his place for him.

It's alot of driving so should I let him stay 🤔

Why do you care? He is a grown up and can decide his own daily mileage surely??

Not your issue unless you want to restart the relationship.

Has he asked?

Do you have kids with him? I would keep the boundaries tbh very confusing for children otherwise

I would if he asked as we have a good relationship - but my kids are older and would understand. He would either sleep on the sofa or bunk in with one of them

@CatFaceCats

I would if he asked as we have a good relationship - but my kids are older and would understand. He would either sleep on the sofa or bunk in with one of them

He has not asked it was me thinking about it. Just a bit worried if he drives for to long

It’s not in one go though is it..

He wouldn't have gone with the idea if he didn't think he could manage the drive.

@CatFaceCats

I would if he asked as we have a good relationship - but my kids are older and would understand. He would either sleep on the sofa or bunk in with one of them

So would I. It is a lot of driving in one day, he'll be knackered. As long as neither of you has a committed relationship with a new partner, I see nothing wrong with him crashing at yours. You are friends and parents after all.