Dh visits his inlaws every single weekend without fail and telephones once a day which is lovely (he also brings the dc and does jobs and runs them to appointments in the nearest city so uses annual leave days or accrued overtime)
They are nice people who I have nothing in common with but we chat easily (I don't agree with their outdated / religious opinions on things but nod and smile)
Anyway I have a few things going on in my own life and my family (accident) plus dh doesnt get a minute to visit my family really or isn't expected to. So he takes the dc once a week and I visit now and again. He says not to worry about me going as I get an hour to myself.
I went yesterday afternoon and mil was very welcoming but said Fil was saying how I never visit. An hour later Fil comes in from the garden and says 'ah its very rare we see them' (about the dc)
I think they see the dc plenty. If I were a son in law and didn't visit every week it wouldn't be an issue (their son in law visits very rarely and daughter does on her own with kids)
