I had a crap marriage, nothing really terrible compared to some but he was an arse, I cheated, he cheated, we disliked each other!
I felt so guilty for breaking up our family that I had years of counselling
He started a relationship with a friend of mine. They remain very happy and now live together. She is a wonderful step mum to our dcs
I worked hard to buy him out and keep my family home.
A hot guy moved in next door, I eventually plucked up the courage to put a note through his door
3 years on ........ Friday this week we completed on our first home, we're rebuilding it, it's a mess, but is has a swimming pool and I'm sooooo excited.
Yesterday he gave me a ring and we are now engaged to never be married
Don't get me wrong, divorce was tough, I had a lot of terrible dates and boyfriends and my ex said 'you'll never find what you're looking for'
HE LIED ....... I did find it, I'm happy, in love, committed, and loyal
Not meant to be a smug post but I know how OLD can suck the life out of you