Hi im looking for some help in understanding my son I have had quite a difficult childhood/early adulthood. I have been through alot . I do have lots of empathy and understanding of people. I just wounder if maybe I have hardened myself a bit and there's some things I'm just not understanding.
I love my son to bits but I'm finding it hard to fully understand his stresses. Every day he tells me his stressed. He says it at least twice a day. Some times I'm not sure if its just something he says or maybe he's using the wrong words I'm not sure . But his reasons for me stressed are :
Hes wants to work for the police and has found it hard prooving his residency.
He filled in a provisional driving license form /pop to the post office get his photos done
Hes had to temporary claim UC. He got a message saying they would call him and he got really upset that they were calling him.
We also need to move home and he got extremely upset over it. We are staying in the same area. And nothing will actually change for him.
He is waiting on his A level results. Which he's told me he's really stressed about which I totally understand I wounder if it might settle after he gets his results.