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Son’s behaviour is wearing me down

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Littlekittyscupcake · 20/07/2021 18:37

I have 2 children. A 4 year old and a 6 year old. The 4 year old is really well behaved. Confident in herself but also caring towards others. I hardly ever have to tell her off. I love my little boy to bits but I find his behaviour extremely challenging at the moment. He’s developed this really annoying habit of screaming when he’s upset. When I mean scream I mean really really loud shrieking scream. Generally I’m a quiet person and self conscious at the best of times.This afternoon just takes the biscuit. Everything was going fine we had a nice chat about school and his day. I gave the children an ice lolly to cool down while they wait for tea. DS was on his tablet. DD was quietly watching the tv. She hadn’t been home from nursery very long. Then DS decides DD isn’t allowed any screen time or the tv so went to snatch the remote from her. I intervened and took it back. He then picks up a pencil with a sharp lead and stabs my (bare no socks) foot with it. It really hurt. I told him off and said no more tablet time then he proceeded to scream the house down. I know the sound carries down the street and I feel so embarrassed and dread what the neighbours think. Quite often I don’t tell him off for fear of it sparking yet another screaming melt down. DH was cooking the dinner and I asked him for back up but he wouldn’t. I’m sick of it. There are a lot of young children in our street and the parents are very friendly. I don’t feel confident enough to get to know anyone because of this. I have to work full time and often work extra hours in the evening or weekends to keep on top of things but I just feel so worn down because of all the drama at home I can’t relax. Does anyone else have children that behave like this? I don’t think any of my friends children do this. I’m not sure what to do.

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Flakeymcwakey · 20/07/2021 18:39

It sounds a bit like your son has located a big, red button in you - noise - and is pushing it for all he is worth. Yes, the rest of us have children like that

romdowa · 20/07/2021 18:43

When he screams just ignore him and walk away. It sounds like he is doing it because he knows it gets to you. Once he gets no reaction he will soon stop.

Littlekittyscupcake · 20/07/2021 18:44

I think you’re right flakey. He knows it upsets me. My dads been really poorly in hospital and I’ve been feeling emotionally drained because of that. I really didn’t need this tonight.

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Missingtheedge · 20/07/2021 19:05

As pp said walk way and ignore him when he starts screaming - he knows this affects you.

Don’t worry about the neighbours - all kids go through stages of poor behaviour regardless of what they’ll tell you.

You really need to have a talk with your DH about backing each other up with behaviour otherwise kids will bounce you off each other if they think they can get away with it.

Deathraystare · 21/07/2021 15:06

You really need to have a talk with your DH about backing each other up with behaviour

Yes you do! Especially the stabbing your foot with a pencil, thing!

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