New guy deleted me.

[Itried88]

So a quite nice looking local man added me on Thursday to Facebook. He had hundreds of friends. A quick flick through his friends to see if we know many of the same circle and there's plenty of the pouting filtered girls on there. I'm not really like that but do try look nice and smile.

He sent me a few messages. Asked if I wanted to Snapchat. I don't use Snapchat.im 32 with 2 kids and he's 31 with 2 kids. He said it was cool and spoke a little more. Then I went to bed. He said talk again soon and said goodnight. I thought potentially we could chat again. But I wasn't going to jump in the next morning.

Then 2 days later he's deleted me. Now I'm confused.

Is it because he wanted us to send pictures?
Did I come across rude?
I'm not an over poster. I got a new phone this week so I added two new photos and I've shared a couple of posts. That's it.

Just don't understand the sudden delete. Are you expected these days to have nudes and sexy pouts ready? Is it so terrible to want conversation for a while first?

Oh my goodness give this no more thought. The guy is quite obviously after an easy shag.

He wanted photos, OP. Don't worry about it. Lucky you found out what he was like so quickly.

This ^ I didn’t know accepting friend requests from random men to chat was a thing. I always write them off as creeps and delete them

He's a photo collector don't bother

Complete stranger, not new guy.

I usually delete most the requests. But I sat the odd one through if they look nice and he had children like me. Hoped he might be mature.
I am single and hope to meet someone out and about when it's right. Online really is just one disappointment after another.
I just thought out of the hundreds of girls on his page why did I get the boot lol. Oh well

Let not sat x

Definitely don’t give it another thought. You have no idea if he really has children, that is an actual pic of him etc though since you don’t know him. I would be very very wary of accepting random invites (anyway but especially becAuse you have children).

Sounds like he was just trying to collect for his wank bank. Forgot about him.

Bw thankful! He sounds like he's after 1 thing - walking STD magnet

Do you even know that the pictures were of him?

No big loss, he sounds like a fuckboy who's only after one thing.

I just thought out of the hundreds of girls on his page why did I get the boot lol.

They are pouting ninnies and you're not?

You're well shot of him.

Yeah he's local. Friends in common. Plus I know others on his page. Definitely him. Definitely his kids.

Maybe he expected me to contact him again. My last attempt at a relationship I was messes about such and lied to. I just feel cautious now and don't trust people who get personal before they know your birthday or what you are into.

Thanks for making me feel better. Took it quite personally seeming how he has a page full of women.

You've had a lucky escape, he was obviously after a quick shag.

Also, you aren't in competition with other women on his page - don't give why he deleted you a 2nd thought.

This isn't the way to meet someone nice, anyone who randomly adds you then immediately wants to Snapchat doesn't have long term potential.

It feels like all men are like this now online. You are an object and they see it as browsing a catalogue.

Definitely a waster. I just hope i stumble across someone by chance soon.

I think you have dodged a bullet here TBH! He sounds like hes just after some booty to look at ! Just dismiss and look again at someone more reliable .If he has "hundreds of friends" hes most likely a player anyway!

He wanted to see your boobs and send you dick pics.

You've had a lucky escape, block, delete, move on.