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Family fight

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Lalamomma · 17/07/2021 23:13

So it’s a long story but I cut it short. I haven’t spoken to my siblings for a year and more (fell out with sister first, years ago any how) when I was pregnant I told them and no one said congrats when she was born last year in the pandemic no one said congrats, wanted to see her nothing. (I fell out with my dad the same time for more reason but they to long to list lol) made up (well not really made up as still kinda pi*ed off with him) anyways. I find out by him one of my brothers & his wife is having a baby (thanks for telling me like even tho I told them) (they had a miscarriage before that (I didn’t know)) I just know my sister (the one I fell out with) was so nice about it to them. yet when I had one she told me to stop posting stuff about it stop me seeing my nieces and nephew because I become depressed and no one was there for me. None of them said happy birthday to my baby literally nothing. (Why am I still pi*send off with them all) I just want to be included but not even before I fell out with them they would ignore me and not bother with me (long story tbh) I have this long message sitting in my notes to send them all it but why should I bother when I know they won’t care! I can’t just not say another it will bother me more (I don’t even want to see my dad but I did it for my children but I can’t get the hate and the hurt out of my head) toxic is toxic and that’s all of my family 🤦🏻‍♀️

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LuvMyBoyz · 18/07/2021 05:27

I’ve never been in this situation but I would concentrate on my own life and expect nothing from my family. If they try to be friendly it’s up to you to accept or not. Make nice life for your baby without them,

Shouldbedoing · 18/07/2021 05:33

You won't change them with a letter but you'll rile them up against you. Make your life easier by ignoring them and focus your love on your baby

JuneJuly · 18/07/2021 08:22

Agree with the other posters, just don't make any effort with them anymore & try not to dwell on it too much. Life will be better & less stressful for you if you just concentrate on your own little family.

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