I've name changed for obvious reasons! (I also posted this in relationships, too, but know that Chat can sometimes get a few more responses, so!)
I discovered this morning that DH has been watching ‘shemale’ porn (the terminology used for the titles of the videos/gifs - I apologise if that actual word is offensive!).
Our DC’s play with DH’s old phone which is synched to his current phone, so anything he searches for, still shows up on his old phones internet history. One of the DC’s was jabbing at the phone this morning, and had managed to fire up the internet - the phone itself can’t be locked in to kids mode so there are some things that they can still access.
Obviously once I noticed they were on the internet instead of the CBeebies based apps, I took the phone away to close the internet app. But in this moment, something came over me, I don’t know why but as I was looking at all the internet tabs, I decided to have a little scroll through the history. Yes, yes, I know, I shouldn’t have and I feel guilty - please don’t berate me for snooping, I’d rather get advice/comments based on porn rather than my stupid moment of weakness!
Anyway, over the last 5-6 weeks, DH has watched shemale porn 3 times! As soon as I spotted this, I typed in the internet search history filter for ‘shemale’ and a further 4 more hits came up spanning back to November last year. I’m quite confident these won’t have been the only times, I can only assume that other searches have been cleared. I'm also aware that he uses Reddit for porn, so again, I know he'll have been viewing it on there too, as Reddit is generally where he'll go to first to view it, as opposed to the internet.
However, the porn based internet searches that came up since November, were all shemale based ones. No ‘regular’ porn in sight at all.
I’ve caught DH looking at porn before throughout our almost 8 years together, and up until now, it’s always been your run of the mill, man with a woman, or a woman by herself, etc etc - nothing like this has ever come up before! Nothing too kinky, or 'out there'. This is entirely new and now my head is spinning!
To make it worse, DH appears to be looking at porn more or less 5-10 minutes after he gets in to work! It’s like he says goodbye to myself and the DC’s in the morning, gets in to work and thinks ‘right, time to look at some shemale porn before I have my coffee and talk to my coworkers!’ 
I don’t know whether I actually have anything to be worried about, but bottom line, I am worried. Where has this new found taste for shemale porn come from?
I don’t think he’s gay, I don't even think he's bi to be completely honest. But my head can’t make sense of any of this. I’m not a massive fan of DH watching porn, but over the years we've watched some together and I’ve also worked hard to accept the fact that him watching it on his own will happen, but when I had that in mind, I assumed I was signing up to a DH that watches ‘regular’ stuff.
Do any of your dh’s/male friends watch this kind of porn, and can you offer any insight as to why this particular type of porn seems to have sprung up from nowhere, and seemingly taken such a hold that it's now his go to choice?!
I’m climbing the walls trying to understand it.