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Diamonds (man made) engagement

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iamtheoneandonlyyy · 15/07/2021 11:33

With a show of virtual hands, which is nicer.
A square diamond or round?
My taste is not good and I'm curious

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wellingtonbear · 15/07/2021 11:34

Round

Sceptre86 · 15/07/2021 11:35

sqauare

TiddyAndFletch · 15/07/2021 11:35

I prefer a round diamond because they are more sparkly. It does depend on the overall design of ring and setting, though. I would choose something classic and plain for an engagement ring. Mine is a round diamond in a simple twist setting, no embellishments.

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iamtheoneandonlyyy · 15/07/2021 11:38

@TiddyAndFletch that sounds very nice

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thecatsthecats · 15/07/2021 11:38

Oval, trillion or baguette Grin

Not a fan of big round diamonds, or large square solitaires. My favourite engagement rings are all cluster or trios.

(my own is an emerald with a cluster of diamonds)

Tittyfilarious81 · 15/07/2021 11:39

Round

idontlikealdi · 15/07/2021 11:40

Round

BumBurnerBum · 15/07/2021 11:40

Your taste is not 'not good', it's just your taste. Choose what you like!

iamtheoneandonlyyy · 15/07/2021 11:51

@BumBurnerBum I know you're right really, I just find that on posts where people ask which dress or whatever is better I always choose the one that nobody else does Grin
I do like to overthink

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RandomHomoSapien · 15/07/2021 12:59

I have a beautiful raised princess cut (square) diamond engagement ring from Tiffany. It is super sparkly… it garners a lot of attention. It’s set on a plain platinum band and my wedding band is also plain as the diamond is such a show stopper!

When DH and I spoke v loosely about engagement rings pre proposal, I was v clear I didn’t want a round diamond as they are everywhere. If you go for a princess cut, go for a ‘brilliant’ cut, this will mean the diamond clarity and sparkle will compare with a round diamond of similar quality.

It is so classic and beautiful, I still get a thrill from wearing it four years after DH proposed and I’m so glad its not round like everyone else!

iamtheoneandonlyyy · 15/07/2021 13:02

Now I'm confused againGrinnice problem to have though.
I've never had anyone before that wants me to be happy and so I've never thought about these things properly so I'm a bit clueless

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OoglyMoogly · 15/07/2021 13:02

[quote iamtheoneandonlyyy]@BumBurnerBum I know you're right really, I just find that on posts where people ask which dress or whatever is better I always choose the one that nobody else does Grin
I do like to overthink [/quote]
You don't follow the crowd. You know your own style! Not a bad thing.

pussycatlickinglollyices · 15/07/2021 13:21

Try a cushion cut.
They're really sparkly and it's kind of both round and square at the same time. Smile

WhatIsThisPlease · 15/07/2021 13:22

Round. Completely timeless.

Strokethefurrywall · 15/07/2021 13:26

I love cushion cut fat more than square which just feels a bit too harsh for me.
So if choice between round or cushion, I’d go cushion.

cirrusminor · 15/07/2021 13:28

If you're going to be the wearer of the ring, I suggest trying some on if you possibly can. Don't worry about what's tasteful or fashionable because you're meant to wear this ring over a number of years, during which trends will change anyway.

FWIW I was absolutely convinced I wanted an oval or an emerald cut, coloured gemstone engagement ring (because I really wanted something "different") until I tried things on - and now here I am with my plain gold solitaire with a small round diamond, and I love it!

iamtheoneandonlyyy · 15/07/2021 13:28

The cushion cut is nice🤔
I think I like the square from the posh spice/ sex and the city era.
I do agree that round is a classic for a reason.
All this from a casual conversation, I can't imagine the stress of a dress Grin(if it's ever needed of course)

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iamtheoneandonlyyy · 15/07/2021 13:30

Very true @cirrusminor I like coloured stones but I think this might not be the direction to go!

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christdoinghisunspecifiedhobby · 15/07/2021 13:33

I have a square diamond. I love it but it seems to constantly need cleaning to look sparkly. I also have a (smaller, non-engagement) round diamond that looks sparkly even when a bit grubby.

I was engaged when I was younger but we never made it down the aisle. I had a trilogy ring, three oval stone in a rubover setting. It was lovely and really unusual. I gave it back but wish I'd kept it.

BobbinThreadbare123 · 15/07/2021 13:51

Just choose what you like best - your username demands it, OP!

Personally I don't like round or square - my engagement ring is a very unusual shape Grin

brushlaptop · 15/07/2021 13:57

I have a soft square but I think ovals are very beautiful!

InTheNameOfAllThatIsHonest · 15/07/2021 14:16

round, brilliant cut. The sparkliest cut!

user1471548941 · 15/07/2021 15:30

I don’t think I can answer this because I love and have a pear cut!

I was told by the jeweller that if I hadn’t chosen it she would have recommended it because it suits my hand!

Go and try some on- we had a lovely day out in the Birmingham Jewellery Quarter designing the final ring.

Sn0tnose · 15/07/2021 16:16

I like coloured stones but I think this might not be the direction to go!

Why not?

mylovelydd · 15/07/2021 17:10

@pussycatlickinglollyices agree! But I'm biased because mine is a Victorian cushion cut ❤️

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