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fucking doggers fucking. WWYD?

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vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 13/07/2021 17:45

Teen DD upset. She was home walking from work through a large park. Not remote, not miles away from kids, but a large field with bushes and trees 5 min walk from a kid's playpark in an urban area.

She noticed condoms on the ground and then realised 6 men in a bush were watching her. One bloke was on his knees on a tartan rug. She was very close to them, just wasn't paying attention or expecting to stumble into an orgy in the middle of suburbia at 4 in the afternoon.

They didn't talk to her or touch her, she's just had a fright.

She said there was some tarpaulin rigged up, looks like they have set up a little rendezvous. It definitely wasn't there a week ago because I went for a middle-aged-woman-wild-wee in that bush!

She's unharmed, she did exactly the right thing, head down, walk on, get away.

I'm furious that these men think it's ok to have a sordid afternoon party near where kids are playing! Plus, the litter, it's just gross. I wouldn't give a rats arse about their grubby fetish if they tidied up after themselves and did it far away from everyone else.

WWYD? Is this a "phone 101" situation? I'm not sure if they are committing a crime beyond littering, but I really don't want them behaving like that near the kids playing.

Bloody men. What is WRONG with them?

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IHateFlies · 13/07/2021 18:55

I came across a similar sight when I was 20 and I’m still disturbed by it. Disgusting. Your poor dd.

Coffeeand · 13/07/2021 19:00

This used to drive me mad. The woods near where I lived in NE London had a very well established cruising area.
I used to walk my dog there most days and actively avoid the section in question. Every so often the dog would head off in the wrong direction and I’d be on by a bush filled with wet wipes and condom wrappers.
I couldn’t care less about what people get up to there as it’s pretty secluded in spots, but all the litter was fucking horrific. One of my kids once found some kind of anal toy in the grass and wanted to take it home. 🤢

HalzTangz · 13/07/2021 19:01

Having sex in public and exposing yourself in public are both crimes. You should ring the police.
If you or your daughter sees this again ring the police straight away so they can catch them in the act

stellaisabella · 13/07/2021 19:07

It's actually a sexual offence and they'd be made to sign the register. Absolutely call the police

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TeardropsFallingOnHotSand · 13/07/2021 19:57

There is a spot near me and its very rural. Back lanes that only service farms so the only none farm traffic is usually picnickers at weekends. I noticed in the evenings many cars would congregate in a large gateway for an hour or so after work, blocking footpaths and bridleways. I drove by slowing down to a stop and took photos of number plates and some of the men. The first thing they do is hide their faces in their lapels, then they walk towards you trying to block the camera with their palms held out. I told them if they had not left within 10 minutes I would upload the images to www.yplac.co.uk I was chased down the road so sped up and got away. They were gone within the 10 minutes though.

toocold54 · 13/07/2021 20:16

That’s disgusting and I’d definitely have phoned the police!

I’m wondering if they’re homeless which is why there’s a tarpaulin but either way theres absolutely no need to do it near children!!! Envy

Neondisco · 13/07/2021 20:21

I'm all for consenting adults doing what they want. But it's unacceptable to involve unconsenting people. Especially as they could be minors.

I'd call the police. If they must be outside there are plenty of private places they could go. They're like getting a kick from others catching them. Fucking gross to involve people without consent.

newnortherner111 · 13/07/2021 20:38

I agree with calling 101. Sex in public regardless of numbers, sexuality or location should always be and remain a criminal offence.

vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 13/07/2021 22:06

Reported it with a description of the place and the shelter thing they had made.

DD is fine, but, agree, there's a tyre swing 2 minutes from there.

Thanks, all.

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