Does anyone have any advice?
Since becoming a mum five years ago I find it so difficult being sexual with my husband because it constantly feels like I'm doing something a bit... sordid? I'm someone's mum now! And finding it hugely difficult to be both caregiver and flirty lover!
Dh and I used to have a brilliant sexual relationship but it's like motherhood changed something in me. Ds has complex needs so there is a lot of 1 to 1 care and is not off playing as my friend's 5 year olds are. So to suddenly go from full on caregiver to the old, sultry me seems impossible!
Dh is wonderful and never pushes the issue of sex or asks me to be sexy but... I miss that side of me! We rarely do it now and I feel like I lost that girl a long time ago. I miss her but just don't know how to switch off and it seems 'wrong' to do so now.
It's such a mess of feelings in my head! Any advice?