We're financially very comfortable mainly thanks to an inheritance and some lucky investments. It has allowed us to live mortgage free.
Dh loves his job so continues to work, but has the freedom to not get stressed about office politics, rounds of redundancies, etc.
I'm a SAHM. It meant we were really fortunate over lockdown as we had no issues with childcare, etc.
Day to day life is lovely. We can afford to pay for help when we're struggling with daily life, so when the dc were little we had an aupair, cleaner, etc. There is no stress when the boiler breaks down and needs replacing or when other big expenses suddenly come in.
Our summer holidays are usually a month abroad in a villa with a pool (dh comes out for 2 weeks), but we'll do several shorter trips throughout the year. In covid times we're just going camping and glamping in the UK.
Our big weekly expenses are the food shop and the dcs sports activities.
We don't spend that much money on clothes as labels just don't interest me, I drive a 10 year old car, and we're not actually all that flash in day to day life. Actually, some close friends know about the inheritance but most people just assume we live of dhs wages and pay a mortgage as we're not outwardly draped in the trappings of wealth.