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Open Water/Cold Water Swimming

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AgentCooperDreamsofTibet · 06/07/2021 13:57

I have a very strong desire to start open water swimming. I’ve always loved swimming but hate swimming pools which are stressful, smelly and restrictive. Wherever and whenever I go I always seem to be too fast for the slow lane and nowhere near fast enough for the fast lane and the open sections are full of people getting in your way, toys being thrown around etc. I love swimming in the sea whenever we go on holiday (usually Med region, although it tends to be much warmer). I often watch folk in the water here in the UK and feel jealous, it looks so calming and freeing.

There is a reservoir very close (walking distance) of my home which is a popular spot for swimmers and several beaches within reasonable driving distance so I have options. I just don’t know where or how to get started. I should mention that I’m very overweight – never used to be but have put on a lot in the last few year and then accelerated during lockdown. I’ve just completed C25K though and am considering swimming as a companion exercise to jogging, plus I’ve always found being in the water to be a great relaxant so there’s a mindfulness aspect for me too.

So being in a swimsuit or wetsuit in public is obviously an issue for me and then that is a question in itself. In all locations I’ve watched some folk in swimsuits and some in wetsuits and am not sure if this is just personal preference. Wetsuits look so restrictive, they really don’t appeal at all and I love the feeling of water against skin (and the idea of being fat in a wetsuit feels worse than fat in a swimsuit for some reason even though I'd be more exposed in the latter) but, if I’m honest, I’m also a bit afraid of jellyfish which tend to hang out at the beaches I’ve mentioned. I do see loads of folk in swimsuits and bikinis though and jellyfish stings seem to be occasional rather than frequent although everyone seems to have a story about a friend of a friend. I’m also though, more inclined to swim in the sea than at the reservoir, despite this being more convenient. There’s something about the thought of mud underfoot rather than sand which makes me feel a bit icky.

I’ve also been looking at the mental and physical health benefits of cold water swimming. I’ve been to a few spas with ice cold water plunge pools and I find that quite addictive. It’s torture when you first get in but then I always feel utterly amazing and keep going back for more. So I guess what I’m saying is that I’m not really put off by cold water but again there is a question about wearing a wetsuit or just braving it in a swimsuit. I thought about a shorty wetsuit to kind of get the best of both worlds but DH says they are only really for summer use and has pointed out that this still won’t protect me from jellyfish. I should mention that I’m in Scotland so the water is fairly cold all year round and very cold in winter.

The final consideration is that I’d likely be doing this alone. DH is horrified by the idea and none of my friends are interested. I’m not sure if this is a good idea or not. There are obvious questions about what happens if I get into trouble in some way. I would however, only go out when others are around – never when the area is deserted.

I’d really like to hear from those who swim outdoors – any experiences or advice is welcome.

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Waitingfirgodot · 06/07/2021 14:42

I swim outdoors. If I'm alone, which I usually am, I swim within my depth. I go in in a swimming costume in the summer, but wear a wetsuit in winter (in the North West). Wetsuit socks are good for getting in. There are various Facebook groups which you could use to find someone to go with.

Fandangoes · 06/07/2021 14:49

I have just started this - also in Scotland. I am not a strong swimmer so its more of a dook to be honest but it is sooo invigorating, I'm loving it. I just go in a swimsuit and I got a pair of swimming shoes just because I don't like walking on the rock/sand/seaweed etc to get in mainly. I go with a friend but I have seen lots of facebook groups where people put posts up saying 'going for a swim at 10am if anyone wants to join me' type thing which I think is a really good idea. If we've met people there they are always really friendly, there is a real community spirit to the whole thing

BogRollBOGOF · 06/07/2021 15:09

I'm very novice, literally found a centre recently and have only had one chance to go!

I already have shortie wetsuits from years of supervising children in shallow pools and will probably upgrade come the autumn. Saying that, diver friends always said that the season for water temperature skews later than the seasons, so their season began in April and continued until November.

The safety points I've picked up are wear a bright swimming cap for visibility (silicon probably warmer than cloth) and get a bouy, again for visibility and as a safer rest if necessary.
I've got some barefoot shoes for foot protection. I have strange feet so went for a brand that I've used previously for barefoot running.

It's worth having a warm up run before swimming so your muscles are already warmed up.

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HelenaNightSoilCart · 06/07/2021 15:18

There’s quite a few groups round me that hold sessions in reservoirs with life guards, guy in a canoe etc. If you Google open water swimming in your area hopefully you’ll come up with some suggestions. Or try your local triathlon club as they will know of suitable spots.

You do have to pay - between £6-10 - but some even have use of changing rooms and showers afterwards if based at a sailing club.

Def get a swimming wetsuit - temperature in larger reservoirs rarely goes above 21C - and the added buoyancy is great. And yes brightly coloured swim cap and a float for visibility.

I’m Kent/East Sussex and I use TriSwim and PopUpSwim and they’re great! Highly recommend it as opposed to the giant Petrie dishes that are indoor public pools.

FanOnCurtainsClosed · 06/07/2021 15:27

I love open water swimming. We have some lakes near us in the south east with designated sessions. Never too busy. Really well organised.

I have my own tow float for visibility and a dry robe for afterwards.

Yesterday the lake was 22 degrees Smile

Please don't worry about your size. Nobody cares. I'm thin but very slow and I watch some amazing bigger people come powering past me and am in awe.

The nice thing about the lake is you can't see much!

UntilYourNextHairBrainedScheme · 06/07/2021 15:36

Sorry to barge in... Can anyone recommend a specific swimming wetsuit? I've started swimming as often as practical and we have a local swimming lake - its actually warmer than the open air pool atm! I'd like to keep going when the weather cools down but will need a wetsuit to keep going through autumn and maybe winter.

Also when I was thinking of starting lake swimming in early spring (I didn't actually do it this year) I came across "dryrobes" for after a cold weather swim and getting changed under - are they worth the money does anyone know?

FanOnCurtainsClosed · 06/07/2021 16:04

I loathe swimming in a wetsuit. I have a shortie but nah. Much prefer the feel of water on skin and I hate getting changed.

I have a dry robe. I know there is some snobbery around them but I love mine.

I literally get out of the lake, put flip flops on and drive home in the robe and get straight into the shower.

I'm not a serious swimmer though!

AgentCooperDreamsofTibet · 06/07/2021 16:44

Thanks!

Heading to the beach at the weekend for a walk but I'm tempted to jump in for a bit and see how I get on. Have just ordered a bright pink swim cap. The float is also a great idea. I'll just go with my cozzie this time and make a decision about wetsuits afterwards. Barefoot shoes also seem like a great idea, especially if I'm tackling the reservoir. I see decathlon have cheap aqua shoes and dryrobes so might give those a go first. Don't want to outlay too much at the start but can always upgrade if this becomes a proper hobby.

FanOnCurtainsClosed You are summing up my thoughts exactly and I too plan to wrap myself up and drive home. I'll have to change properly if I use the reservoir though - driving isn't really an option and walking 20 minutes across the fields in a robe and flip-flops isn't great either.

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mindutopia · 06/07/2021 17:48

I swim all year round. It's lovely. Everyone has their particular approach. Personally for me, it isn't a sporting pursuit. I don't swim for distance or to burn calories, it's for mental clarity and just a bit of peace, so I don't go quickly or do particular strokes. I swim in a normal swimsuit, even in January. I just don't like wetsuits. There's no reason you need a wetsuit if you properly acclimate yourself to the water temperature. If you are starting now when temps are warm, you can easily build up tolerance for winter swimming and won't need a wetsuit, unless you prefer one.

I know there are quit strong opinions about swimming alone. Personally, I do swim alone, but I am quite cautious about where I do it. I swim in calm rivers that aren't particularly deep (not over my head) or fast flowing. I also swim in the sea in places where I know there will be other people and I don't go too far out of my depth. I won't go in at all if the sea is rough. If I want to swim somewhere unfamiliar that I expect will be a bit more tricky, I take dh and dc along and they'll play on the beach while I swim. Yes, definitely recommend water shoes. Our beaches are all pebbles and horribly painful to walk on without shoes!

FanOnCurtainsClosed · 06/07/2021 17:56

Oh yes. Forgot about the swim booties. I just got mine off Amazon Smile

coodawoodashooda · 06/07/2021 18:00

Ive recently started this too. Also Scotland. Also very overweight. I can't recommend it more highly. Roughly where about are you?

Tickledtrout · 06/07/2021 18:03

Decathlon have a good range of affordable suits, neoprene socks/ boots. Tow floats and bright swim hats are important if you're using water occupied by boats and boards.
Check on Facebook for a local group; bluetits are very inclusive. Or book a session with a coach in a commercial lake. Have fun!

iloverock · 06/07/2021 18:03

Look at your local bluetits Facebook groups.
So Shropshire bluetits have lots of people meeting up. All shapes and sizes. You can tag along with others.
Wetsuit in winter. Costume in summer.

TotheletterofthelawTHELETTER · 06/07/2021 18:04

I’ve recently started sea swimming in the north east with a group. I swim in a costume but have wetsuit gloves as found cold fingers unbearable. I love it, it’s brilliant for my mental health.
I’d definitely recommend a tow float. I’d never swim alone in the sea, even if a friend could come to watch from the shore for safety.

TotheletterofthelawTHELETTER · 06/07/2021 18:07

I couldn’t figure out how to edit my post... I meant that I’d be happy to swim alone if I had a companion on the beach just in case anything happened.

Go for it, enjoy

PickleSarnie · 06/07/2021 18:09

Don't worry about being in public in a cossie/wetsuit. The brilliant thing about OWS is that everyone is all different sizes and nobody cares at all. It's actually incredibly liberating. My arse is still fat but I care much less these days. Actually, having a bit of extra padding/'bioprene' will head insulate against the cold!

There are loads of groups all over the country that will organise informal meets. Have a look on Facebook.

The brilliant thing about OWS (one of the many brilliant things actually) is that it's so chilled and non competitive. You'll get people in cossies and bobble hats in for a leisurely swimble and a chat as well as head down front crawlers. Just go at whatever pace you want.

There's a bit of sniffiness with those that swim 'skins' and those that wear wetsuits but just ignore that and wear what you feel comfortable. I'm in a cossie now but swim through winter in ALL the neoprene. I actually think I prefer winter. The water got down to 6 degrees at one point. The brain freeze was hideous but it soon goes!!

Changing robes are brilliant for when it gets colder. But a towel is fine for now until you decide you want to stick at it. I have a dryrobe and I love it. Even though its a bit like being in a cult. Cheaper ones are available though. Definitely get a tow float and neoprene boots/shoes for the mud/weeds are brilliant.

Have fun! It's soooooo addictive!!

doglikescheeseontoast · 06/07/2021 18:12

I swim several times a week in rivers in Norfolk. I wear mainly leggings and t-shirts, with water shoes - the cheap ones you get in Lidl or Aldi for about £3. The main thing I would advise is to get out of the water BEFORE you start to feel uncomfortably cold.

AgentCooperDreamsofTibet · 06/07/2021 18:19

Hi coodawoodashooda (fab name). I don't want to out myself too much re location but I'm East Coast.

Lots of helpful advice here, thanks. Off to look at fb groups now. DH thinks I'm insane. I've had this plan festering for over a year - only mentioned it to him last week and now I'm in complete acceleration.

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picklemewalnuts · 06/07/2021 18:22

Good to hear about the gloves! My hands got really cold when I swam in the sea this week, 15 degrees. It was great. Well, I didn't swim, my shoes were too floaty. I did wave my arms and legs around, mind - treading water style. My hands started to hurt, so I wondered if Raynauds' was going to stop me.

Please go for it, OP. I'd like to go more, but there's nowhere near me.

AgentCooperDreamsofTibet · 06/07/2021 18:26

I've just been looking online at floats which double as waterproof storage for phone, keys etc. These seem brilliant and this was going to be my next question- what to do with personal items for safety. Any recommendations for brands?

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FanOnCurtainsClosed · 06/07/2021 18:36

Mine just came from eBay for about £6

HelplessProcrastinator · 06/07/2021 18:38

I started open water swimming in the sea in April. I'd wanted to for ages but didn't have anyone to go with. I tagged along with a couple of people from a hobby I do when I saw their posts on our WhatsApp chat. A couple of us have now tagged on to an informal group who post times on WhatsApp to meet up at our usual spot 3-4 times a week (I average once a week due to DC and work). There are Facebook groups for our local area as well.

No one cares what size people are. Lots of larger people swim and it's not an issue. All ages and shapes and no one can see once you are in. I'm a size 16 myself (slowly losing and down a dress size since May). I wear neoprene socks and a shorty wetsuit which is my preference at the moment. I don't swim an enormous distance and it's not tight across the shoulders. Loads of people in costumes all year round, or full length wetsuits. Whatever! DH bought me an alternative dry robe brand and I love it. I just drive home with cossie and robe on to save faffing with clothes. Go for it OP! You will figure out what clothes etc work for you once you have been in a few times.

PickleSarnie · 06/07/2021 18:39

Re tow floats, it'll depend whether you want to swim with your kit eg a towel etc or whether you just need to store car keys/phone etc.

I had the swimsecure donut. Great for easy access. Although it's started to have a bit of a slow leak - but I have friends who've had it for ages with no issues. I just bought the puffin one. It's made out of recycled bottles. They also do one that is compostable. Comes with a built in whistle which is cool.

lots33 · 06/07/2021 18:54

I would recommend watching the Merthyr Mermaid on iplayer, she is great and v inspiring!

SirenSays · 06/07/2021 19:27

Just a quick warning OP, check there aren't any costs.
I've just checked and everywhere in my city I could think of for open water swimming are apparently now ran by the council and require memberships of £25pp and £6+ per session. Tbh it looks like it's got more rules than my local pool, dictating which direction you're allowed to swim, on which days and for how long. No relaxing swims at the weekends either, just loop and triathlon training. The sessions are so short. It's apparently always really busy too.

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