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How to split the restaurant bill?

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Karwomannghia · 06/07/2021 07:16

I’ve booked a restaurant to visit with a friend and had to pay £10 deposit.
When we go and we get the bill, how do we split it? Obviously just going halves.

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Sirzy · 06/07/2021 07:17

Spilt it in half on the day then add £5 onto hers for half the deposit then.

Sparklingbrook · 06/07/2021 07:18

Friend gives/pings you a fiver now and then you ask the waiter to halve the bill when it comes?

HeartZone · 06/07/2021 07:19

Bill arrives = £100 ( shows £110 - deposit)

Split £110 two ways

£55 each to pay.

But as you have already paid ten pounds yours is £45

£100

Hope this helps

Willwebebuyingnumber11 · 06/07/2021 07:20

Did she not offer to transfer you the £5. If not, as @HeartZone said.

BigSandyBalls2015 · 06/07/2021 07:20

For the sake of a fiver I’d prob just forget it and split the bill on the day ... I appreciate that depends on your circumstances though.

Karwomannghia · 06/07/2021 07:20

@Sirzy

Spilt it in half on the day then add £5 onto hers for half the deposit then.
So she pays half to the restaurant and £5 to me? Or an extra £5 to restaurant?
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Sparklingbrook · 06/07/2021 07:21

@BigSandyBalls2015

For the sake of a fiver I’d prob just forget it and split the bill on the day ... I appreciate that depends on your circumstances though.
Me too. Friend could book and pay the deposit next time instead maybe.
Karwomannghia · 06/07/2021 07:22

Of course she’d offer the £5 now but last time we didn’t even think of it till we’d got the bill after a few drinks and couldn’t think of how to do it quickly!

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BelleClapper · 06/07/2021 07:22

Have you actually paid the deposit or have they just pre authorised your card? It’s usually the latter and they only take the tenner if you don’t show up.

Karwomannghia · 06/07/2021 07:24

I’m not short of money or being miserly, just like a little puzzle!

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Sparklingbrook · 06/07/2021 07:25

So has this already happened? Confused

isitjustlockdown · 06/07/2021 07:26

Take the bill total, minus the £5. Split the remainder in half. Your pay the half to ur friend pays the half plus the fiver. As a working example:

Total bill = £55

  • £5 (your friends share of deposit) = £50
£50/2=£25

You pay 25, your friend pays £30.

Fruityfriday · 06/07/2021 07:26

I'd split the bill and not worry about £10. It does depend on circumstances though.

Karwomannghia · 06/07/2021 07:27

@HeartZone

Bill arrives = £100 ( shows £110 - deposit)

Split £110 two ways

£55 each to pay.

But as you have already paid ten pounds yours is £45

£100

Hope this helps

Yes that makes sense, so add £10, split, take off £10 for me! I think that’s what we said last time but then I was worried she’d paid more because I was thinking if we’d split it, it would have been £5 each so she should only being paying £5 more 🤪
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TheChosenTwo · 06/07/2021 07:27

Same as @BigSandyBalls2015 I’d just halve whatever the restaurant bill was and both pay the same on the day.

MikeWozniaksMohawk · 06/07/2021 07:27

The deposit will come off your bill.

So say the total meal costs £50
Then the deposit of £10 is taken off, leaving £40 to pay. That’s £20 each.
But your friend owes you £5 for their half of the deposit.
So add £5 to their half, and take off £5 from yours.
You pay £15, friend pays £25 to pay the total bill less the deposit.

isitjustlockdown · 06/07/2021 07:27

^Sorry my phone auto "corrected" the above to not make sense.

It should say you pay half after the £5 deducted, your friend pays half plus £5.

stopknockingonmydoor · 06/07/2021 07:28

Another one saying just split the bill and forget the extra fiver you've paid towards the deposit.

AtillatheHun · 06/07/2021 07:29

It’s a deposit; the maths shows it as an additional charge which is wrong. If the bill is £100, it will show £90 payable not £110.
Suggest not going out if this is such a massive concern.

Karwomannghia · 06/07/2021 07:30

We’ve been before and I can remember getting confused trying to quickly split it, she kept trying to give me an extra tenner whereas I was thinking it should only be half.

Neither of us is tight or lacking money I just like being able to calculate stuff quickly and it got me! Especially after a few drinks.

Going again.

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Karwomannghia · 06/07/2021 07:32

They do actually take the money before yes.

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Sparklingbrook · 06/07/2021 07:33

I think if you are going to split the deposit it's just easier and less stressful for you if she pings you a fiver now, and then you can relax and split the bill when you go.

rookiemere · 06/07/2021 07:35

Some people are weird.

Why on earth should OP pay £10 extra because she went to the bother of booking the meal ? All she's asking is how to split the bill correctly with the deposit. I'd be mortified if I knew my friend was subsidising me because too polite or embarrassed to mention deposit and we're both on decent incomes.

TheChosenTwo · 06/07/2021 07:37

Or the other thing you could do is halve the bill and your friend leaves the tip.