I'm trying to channel my inner 'its an invitation not a summons'.
I've been invited to a wedding party about an hour away. Since accepting I've found out that almost all my colleagues are invited to the ceremony and hen. Now I know I'm a spare part would it be terribly rude of me to decline after all? I don't want to drive to join a bunch of pissed people for a couple of hours the drive back again. It would give us a whole weekend to get away somewhere as DH doesn't have much annual leave.
To preempt any 'you obviously don't like them very much' comments, I'm a bit surprised at being the bottom of the pile but I thought we got on quite well.