Excellent text, well done.
Doing it by text is just fine.
You were succinct.
Why should you be imposed upon by someone so opinionated and critical of you, in YOUR home.
Please do not back down in any way.
If she calls over it will be further proof that she is just using you.
You need space.
Do not allow her into your home again.
You have done the really hard part.
Of course it is very hard and upsetting standing up for yourself but the relief you are going to feel going forward with be so good for you.
Feeling imposed upon in your own home is the worst feeling.
I am a reasonably sociable person but I wouldn't be able to cope with what you have put up with.
Neither would any of my dear friends.
We all love our privacy and the quiet of our home.
I live 25 years here and I think a neighbour may have been in my home a couple of times, despite being so kind and lovely.
How you are feeling is so normal and you must actually be extremely strong mentally to have tolerated this and not cracked before.
You have done the hard bit.
Do not back down for a second.
