Hi all. My dad got with my stepmum when I was 16 and we have been really close from day one. I lived with her in my teens and often said she was there for me more than my mum was. I love her SO much as she's a fantastic person. She's always said I was her 4th child and when I had a baby she was a doting Grandma from day one.
However, her and my dad broke up 3 years ago (they'd been together for 18 years) and things have really been different since then. We barely talk anymore as she doesn't often return my calls or texts. She took my son on holiday the year after the break up, but hasn't seen him since. Then a few weeks ago I noticed she had removed me as a friend on Facebook (and my dad too which is fair enough, he has a new girlfriend now so probably not easy to see). I was really upset so messaged her asking her why, and she replied saying something like oh, I don't like social media, I'd rather we have a proper chat than Facebook, I'm going through a hard time at the moment.
I feel SO rejected. I do know she's had some hard upsetting things happen, but I feel so miserable that she's not returning my texts or calling anymore. And I feel sad for my son, who misses his grandma.