I bought a car yesterday. Not the first car I've ever bought but shockingly the first one I've bought all on my own. My dad helped me with my first and then I got married and DH has always been there for subsequent purchases. I think TBH I was always the decision maker, but he was always there.
I've also just unblocked a blocked sink for the first time and started mowing the grass and reading the gas meter myself.
DH is very ill and unable to do anything now. I have a senior professional career. I'm intelligent and capable. I always thought we had an equal division of labour and we did for the domestic tasks, but it's shocking how I let him get on with the "blue" jobs.
I'm finding there's a lot I don't know how to do, things I've just never done. I can find out and be fairly capable when I try, I just never have. Anyone else?