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Should I just let him go?

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Glens07 · 15/06/2021 15:59

The other day I noticed on my boyfriends Instagram that he started following a random woman. I asked him who it was and he told me it was none of my business. I later found out(not from him) that it was a friend of his friends girlfriend. Apparently the friend and his girlfriend were with my boyfriend. This girl called by video and they were all having a conversation together. She then added my boyfriend on Instagram and he started liking her photos. I asked him why he felt the need to follow her and start liking her photos when he doesn’t even know her and he got really angry, called me jealous and broke up with me!! Saying he can’t tolerate jealous behavior. We have had several instances in the past where he did similar things and we fought about them but got over it. Now I’m thinking he has started talking to this girl through Instagram and that’s why he ended our relationship. This girl doesn’t even live in this country, she lives abroad. So the chances of a relationship with her are slim. Why would he do this? I’m very upset and want him back? Am I being stupid and should I just let him go?

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Returnoftheowl · 15/06/2021 16:33

Yes, let him go, he's not treating you how you want to be treated. Don't waste any more time on him.

converseandjeans · 15/06/2021 16:39

He's done this before - don't try to get him back.

FlorencenotRatchet · 15/06/2021 17:49

Agree with the other posters. You deserve better. Please do not take him back!

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Whosaidit · 15/06/2021 17:52

Don’t take him back or you’ll be dealing with this issue or similar over and over. You’d be doing yourself a favour if you forget about him

Gilead · 15/06/2021 17:53

Walk away, enjoy your life.

Ckzoaa · 15/06/2021 17:56

This happened to me and he did it over and over again just dump him save yourself the heart ache believe me

Inthesameboatatmo · 15/06/2021 18:02

Block ,delete and live life without him .

Newestname001 · 15/06/2021 18:03

Keep well clear. If this is a repeating pattern he'll come crawling back - make sure you value yourself enough to repulse his advances. This one's not a keeper. Onwards and upwards @Glens07 🌹

faithfulbird20 · 17/06/2021 23:24

Let him go. He's living in some fantasy thinking she'll come here and be his gf.it will fizzle out but I suggest you run and find a proper man.

Leeds2 · 17/06/2021 23:27

Get rid. You deserve better.

kylie122 · 17/06/2021 23:29

Sounds like my ex !! That was the way he acted when he was upto stuff let him go!!!

HollowTalk · 17/06/2021 23:50

Block, delete, live a happy life. Not all men are like that.

Worriesome · 18/06/2021 06:14

As soon as u asked him who she was and he told u it was none of ur business - that’s when u should have dumped his sorry ass x

Suzi888 · 18/06/2021 06:16

@HollowTalk

Block, delete, live a happy life. Not all men are like that.
.^ you deserve better.
PracticingPerson · 18/06/2021 06:18

Yes, let him go as you can find someone better.

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