Me and DP (if that’s the right expression!) became exclusive in feb. Recently I saw on his phone that he had a dating app, the one we met on. I saw this while he was on his phone in general, in passing. I asked him about it, he said that he didn’t use it and he had gone off it.
I checked his phone minutes after this conversation so he had no time to change anything on the app. He doesn’t give me cause not to trust him but I wanted to check. Yes, I know I shouldn’t etc etc.
On the app there were no current matches and no conversations. It was empty. His profile was described, but with a click could be removed activated ie it wasn’t fully deleted from his phone.
I just don’t know how I feel about it? He’s quite a sincere person, he also has no time at all, he’s always in touch and wants to see me. I have no reason to doubt him and obviously based on the app he’s clearly not swiping and matching and nor is he having conversations. But it’s not actually deleted is it? I don’t know. He’s not really a technology sort of person so I can imagine him just not using it and leaving the app on there. Which I guess is it is what is going on as it wasn’t in use at all.
But I don’t want to be one of those women who can’t see the wood for the trees because they love someone. I’m not an idiot and think I can be a good judge of character, but where love is concerned you can never be sure can you!
Any thoughts?