Somebody please help I’ve been married to my husband for 13 years and with him for 18 years he was in raf and I was a girl he got with back home on leave.we are now settled in our bought beautiful home round the corner to his mam our house being the one my hubby had his name down on with his mans partner all confusing I know we have 2 children together a son and a daughter my son is 12 and daughter 10 my son has autism... it’s hard! To top it all off my husband is very much a strict and regimental guy around me and kids daily we are settled and he is now in civyy street but I feel this is turning more in to a nightmare than the raf and all is one sided ... he has a Mam and I am one in 4 from both my parents who I don’t see much of as I feel he has set up. I could go on lots more but my main concern is I have lost myself and I’m worried for my mental health I have tried talking to him but he just blames my family and drink on w weekend xx