We live in a small community and there is a hobby ds does that is ran by the community rather than a big organisation and one man with a son the same age has taken over as the leader. He isn't friendly or talkative but he seems to be keen.
He has own son doing the best activity each week with all his friends. Our son is left with younger children and when dh asked he said our son is weak ability (he is exactly the same as the others and obviously I'm proud of him and love him so don't want him left out)
So he put our son in with the good group and then took his own sons and friends to the younger weaker group as if deliberately.
Maybe that makes no sense. But he has taken a dislike to our son or something. He is a happy well behaved child. His son is slightly older. Louder and a big mors aggressive but I don't really care about that. Every child is different
We are talking 6 and 7 year olds here. There is no need for this at all 