Hi, I’ve been a SAHM/Housewife for quite some time now but have worked part-time/weekends through periods of this. My jobs have ended due to the demands of my DH’s job, who is the much higher earner. We have no family help and I do everything but I feel so undervalued sometimes. I’d also like my own income, so I’m able to treat myself once in a while. The problem is, a lot of the part time jobs I’ve looked at aren’t flexible hours and also the holidays are limited to mostly 4 weeks a year, DH can’t always have school holidays off and as he’s self-employed, we’d lose a huge chunk of his income. Holidays clubs are expensive and I’d be paying more than I’d earn for our three children to attend these, also DH works away on occasions and has a very demanding job. It’s not guaranteed he’ll be able to do school drop offs and pick ups too. I don’t know what to do!