Name change
Bit of advice needed
yet again another bedwet from Dsc age 9 was awful a few years ago but had been dry for over a year.
Lately its every weekend.
Have asked if wets when with DM, the answer is yes, sometimes, about 2 a week.
Only drinks water and tbh not tonnes and not loads before bed.
When it's happened they sneak around, changed bottoms etc. And then wakes me (dh deep sleeper so I then wake him.) we both go change the bed by torch light so as not to wake dd on bottom bunk
Weve asked if any issues at home or school. Nothing.
No signs of uti
When we ask DM. She denies it happens at home to make out it only happens here. (history of making out we have issues and they don't but that's a different thread)
However dsc says when wets at home, they change and get into mummies bed. They like to sleep in mummies bed. Then mummy changes the bed in the morning or sometimes after work the next day if they don't have time meaning 2 nights in mummy's bed.
When it's done it's the duvet, cover, sheet, waterproof and even often as far up as the pillow. Min 2 loads of washing.
It's draining. Obviously can't help it but at my witts end.
Ds only had 1 accident ever. And dd 3 prob 5 times since being out of nappies day and night at 22m. I know all kids are different but this is a bit of a shock to the system.
I know it's normal but dh is convinced it's because at home it's then a 'treat' to get in with mummy, so makes dsc more lazy and not caring.?
I just don't know.