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Mum Guilt

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Babyholly · 15/05/2021 08:46

I have major mum gulit when it comes to my husband looking after our 4month old. He works 4 days a week and on his day off and weekends he will do more with the baby well try but I get really guilty that hes doing it. I feel guilty if he has to get up at 6 when baby is awake thsts the biggest thing is sleep. He gets easily frustrated with our son so I just say ill do it. Hes says that he has our son on his day off and weekend when I remind him we both have him as im still there, when I tell him this is what I do the days hes working on my own he gets and angry which makes my mum guilt even worse. I'm always crying and we always have at least 1 argument on the weekend about baby related things. I'm just so tired and would rather do it myself just so husband is happy because as of now im not happy 😔 I just don't know what to do. I try and tell him how I feel and its just one big circle again.

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ConfusedAdultFemale · 15/05/2021 08:55

You have mum guilt for your husband taking care of his son? Why? It sounds like he’s getting angry because you keep telling him he’s not taking care of the baby on his own, you have it harder because you look after him on your own while he’s at work.

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