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Books for explaining death to young children

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ThankYouHunkyJesus · 14/05/2021 07:03

I didn't know where else to post. An elderly relative has a terminal diagnosis and they're very very close to my 4year old dc. Can anyone recommend any books i can order to prepare for when the worst happens? I've had a look on Amazon but I'm a bit overwhelmed with all the options. Thanks in advance.

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Scissor · 14/05/2021 07:06

Badger's Parting Gifts

badlydrawnbear · 14/05/2021 07:11

I read the title and came to say 'Badger's Parting Gifts' but Scissor beat me to it. It is a lovely book.
'Goodbye Mog' by Judith Kerr didn't work as well as expected even though I was using it to explain the death of a pet not a person (I wonder if a young child would translate the story of the death of a pet cat into what had happened to their relative)

ineedaholidaynow · 14/05/2021 07:11

I’ve seen the Badger’s Parting Gifts recommended a lot.

HeyGirlHeyBoy · 14/05/2021 07:12

Badger's parting gifts, Rabbityness and The Day the tide went out.. The Invisible string too talks about people who have gone.

ThankYouHunkyJesus · 14/05/2021 07:43

Thank you I'll take a look at those, much appreciated.

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StrictlyAFemaleFemale · 14/05/2021 07:47

Goodbye Mog.

Badgers parting gifts was too long for my 4yo.

blindspots · 14/05/2021 08:21

My two year old son died recently. My 4 and 6 year olds really like The Invisible String (we change the wording slightly) and a book called Beginnings and Endings and Lifetimes in Between (would recommend for anyone needing to explain death to children, whether siblings, parents, elderly relatives or pets)

picklemewalnuts · 14/05/2021 08:28

It's worth getting all the books and films out before sharing any news. Then reread/watch later.

There was a comedy film on about four years ago, where children manage the death of their grandad in a rather unusual way. It's not aimed at children, but it would be worth a watch- with tissues if you are close to them too. I laughed and cried in equal measure. It has Billy Connelly in.

UP is good, too, the film with the balloon.

picklemewalnuts · 14/05/2021 08:29

((Blind spots)). I'm sorry for your loss.

DontAskIDontKnow · 14/05/2021 08:29

No Matter What is a lovely book. It doesn’t explain death, but does talk about love in a way that can help.

ThankYouHunkyJesus · 14/05/2021 09:30

I'm so sorry for your loss blindspots. Thank you for taking the time to post.

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wearetheweirdosmr · 14/05/2021 11:12

If there is hospice involvement they may well have a team who can help with this.
We have many books for kids on death and dying etc as well as a children's bereavement group

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