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Good lord, I've just started watching Teen Mom UK.

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Mowington · 07/05/2021 16:16

Obviously scraping the barrel of things to binge having been stuck at home so long, not the kind of thing I usually watch at all, but thought I'd give it a go.

God, this show makes me so uncomfortable. Ethically it seems so not in the interest of the people on the show. Are they paid well for it? Do they have legal advisors? Confused

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PatrickBatemann · 07/05/2021 19:10

@IHaveBrilloHair

Um Megan's bf is in prison for manslaughter, Dylan has two more kids with someone else and I'm not sure he sees any of them.
You're joking?! Which one.
PatrickBatemann · 07/05/2021 19:14

@Mowington

How do you guys know all of this?
They're all very active on social media
Twizbe · 07/05/2021 19:25

@SouthOfFrance

If you find the UK one slightly unethical you should read about the first US one where a couple called Catelynn & Tyler gave a baby up for adoption. The show then became a massive hit & in retrospect the couple could totally have afforded to keep their baby. They have obviously both massively struggled with the decision they made at the time, not knowing what was about to happen with the show. Its horrendous.
Tbf to them, at the time that show aired they had no idea how big the show would be or that they would continue their story on Teen Mom.

If you watch Teen Mom you can see just how bad their situation was. Their parents were addicts. Tyler's father was in and out of prison.

All credit to them staying together and going on to have other children. They've spoken about how their lives have changed. They've both said that they still feel that placing their daughter for adoption was the right decision at the time.

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Octopus37 · 07/05/2021 19:29

Totally addictive, its my guilty pleasure.

Ginger1982 · 07/05/2021 19:39

@Twizbe the problem with Catelynn and Tyler is that they now can't just let Carly get on with her life. They seem to think that because of the position they're now in, they should have greater access to her and I think that's wrong.

HumunaHey · 07/05/2021 19:55

@SouthOfFrance

If you find the UK one slightly unethical you should read about the first US one where a couple called Catelynn & Tyler gave a baby up for adoption. The show then became a massive hit & in retrospect the couple could totally have afforded to keep their baby. They have obviously both massively struggled with the decision they made at the time, not knowing what was about to happen with the show. Its horrendous.
I was going to say the same thing! It's awful. I watched it when it first aired right up to the most recent series. Amber has been made out to be such a villain but rewatching the early episodes, you realise how manipulative Gary actually was.

Regarding Catelyn and Tyler, I agree about them feeling entitled to access. They don't seem to accept that the parents want to protect Carly's anonymity. Catelyn and Tyler are on a widely watched TV show. Carly is of school age now. They're not going to want visits and the like aired on TV.

And don't get me started on Maci, she completely uses Bentley for her storyline, forcing him to talk about his therapy sessions on TV.

Ginger1982 · 07/05/2021 20:19

"And don't get me started on Maci, she completely uses Bentley for her storyline, forcing him to talk about his therapy sessions on TV."

That's because her life is so dull now. All she has to make it worthy of watching is the relationship, or lack thereof, between Bentley and Ryan. Same with Chelsea on TM2 but at least she knew when it was time to quit.

Yikes38 · 07/05/2021 20:35

@sumpplneedshaking

Megan's ex Dylan sees his two kids with Megan and he's in a relationship with Ree-ann the mother of his youngest two children. Megan has a bf who isn't in prison. God knows where you get your wrong information from!
Her new boyfriend is Sonny Hazell. He is a convicted murderer - currently serving time. She got with him before he was sentenced
Ginger1982 · 07/05/2021 20:55

"Her new boyfriend is Sonny Hazell. He is a convicted murderer - currently serving time. She got with him before he was sentenced"

What happened to Tel, Dylan's pal? Last time I watched they were together and she wanted a baby with him 🙄

HumunaHey · 07/05/2021 21:54

Their instagram pages are ridiculous, full of people blowsmoke up their arses. I just checked Megan's page and she has a pic with a guy's face blurred out (must be the convict boyfriend) and everyone is like "so happy for you hun" 🙄.

I need to get a life. I'm going down a Teen Mom rabbit hole. The entire franchise is just awful.

PatrickBatemann · 07/05/2021 21:56

@HumunaHey

Their instagram pages are ridiculous, full of people blowsmoke up their arses. I just checked Megan's page and she has a pic with a guy's face blurred out (must be the convict boyfriend) and everyone is like "so happy for you hun" 🙄.

I need to get a life. I'm going down a Teen Mom rabbit hole. The entire franchise is just awful.

I did wonder why she was so reluctant to show his face Grin makes sense now ...
BeefSupreme · 07/05/2021 22:22

Jesus Christ, this show sounds even worse than the American shows. I don’t think I can stomach watching it.

SouthOfFrance · 07/05/2021 23:25

See I know what you mean Twizbe, they did totally make the right decision at the time, and had awful homelives that made bring a baby into the situation pretty bleak, but I think it absolutely kills them now to know that they'd have had the money to try and make it work with Carly. Even if they know in their heart of hearts it may not have worked out for them (and obviously noone knew the show would be such a sucess) I think on an emotional level it's totally messed with Catelynne's head.

Maci probably needs to quit now, but I guess it's easy(?) money. I think she's come out of it looking OK, comes across as a good parent etc, even if putting Bentley forward to talk about his therapy.

The whole Amber thing is just a car crash isn't it. I wonder if all the rehabs and therapy is paid for by themselves or MTV, they all seem to have a lot of therapy shown.

Anyway, bit off track as this is about the UK show, which I need to now watch thanks to this thread!

iseefarts · 07/05/2021 23:44

^^ I don't dare watch the US version now!

IHaveBrilloHair · 08/05/2021 12:47

No, Dylan and Reeanne have split up, or they had last week!
I'm not sure which kids he does/doesn't see, it could be all or none.
I think there was a thing about him not paying maintenance to Megan for a while, tbh I can't keep up.
(I get my info from Tattle btw, saves me from following them all on Insta!)
I wish Mia could come back but Manley won't give permission.

IHaveBrilloHair · 08/05/2021 12:52

Ryan and his whole family have been sacked from TeenMomOG, because of a fight with Larry at the reunion.
Ryan didn't go as Maci triggers himHmm
Jen then said that Taylor is jealous of Ryan.

Twizbe · 08/05/2021 13:23

@IHaveBrilloHair

No, Dylan and Reeanne have split up, or they had last week! I'm not sure which kids he does/doesn't see, it could be all or none. I think there was a thing about him not paying maintenance to Megan for a while, tbh I can't keep up. (I get my info from Tattle btw, saves me from following them all on Insta!) I wish Mia could come back but Manley won't give permission.
I always got the impression that Mia got pregnant because Manley was having a baby with Erin.
IHaveBrilloHair · 08/05/2021 13:42

Oh, I think she did too, but she didn't want to leave the show, he withdrew consent to having Marliya filmed.
She's on SM though.
If you saw the recent catchup show, there were no recent photos of her and no film at all.

sunflowersandbuttercups · 08/05/2021 13:45

Oh, I think she did too, but she didn't want to leave the show, he withdrew consent to having Marliya filmed.

To be fair, good for him. I don't really like Manley and I think he's controlling and played Mia and Erin off against each other a lot, but I wouldn't want my kids life (or my relationship) aired on TV!

I always felt bad for Mia as I felt Maggie (Manley's mum) visibly favoured Erin too.

sunflowersandbuttercups · 08/05/2021 13:48

Maci probably needs to quit now, but I guess it's easy(?) money. I think she's come out of it looking OK, comes across as a good parent etc, even if putting Bentley forward to talk about his therapy.

Maci and Taylor are constantly drinking - I think they both have a troublesome relationship with alcohol. There was an episode where she picked Bentley up from the school bus and she was slurring all over the place.

IHaveBrilloHair · 08/05/2021 13:55

Yes, always Bud light in their sections.

SouthOfFrance · 08/05/2021 15:28

Oh wow, I had totally missed that Sunflower - but now you mention it there is always beer around. You never really see her parents in it either do you? Always has been Ryan's, although I think there were in the first series.

sunflowersandbuttercups · 08/05/2021 15:31

@SouthOfFrance

Oh wow, I had totally missed that Sunflower - but now you mention it there is always beer around. You never really see her parents in it either do you? Always has been Ryan's, although I think there were in the first series.
Yeah, it's a shame because I always liked Maci at the beginning and I think out of the four American OG's she's (imo) the most down to earth and sensible.

But no doubt fame, being a young parent and having your life on TV for the world to criticise is always going to have an impact.

The worst out of all of them is Jennelle from Teen Mom 2.

Thatisnotwhatisaid · 08/05/2021 15:37

I watched the first series of it in the US back in 2009. I think a few of the women from that series are fairly popular still to this day but all seem quite troubled. Very sad.

IHaveBrilloHair · 08/05/2021 15:40

Jenelle is a complete car crash, and staying with David is awful, although of course he is worse than her.

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