I fell out with someone a few years ago. I knew there was something up with her for a while and one night I scolded her.
I wish I could turn back time because it opened up years of shit. The other person told me I was dead to her and she wanted nothing more to do with me. I was upset at first but I accepted it and I kept busy over the years.
I never knew how bad she was. She has showed years of poison even though I usually ignore her. We don't live in the same locality and we haven't seen each other in years and there's no mutual friends or Facebook. I have taken the necessary steps over the past few years to protect myself like changing my number, slimming down social media, etc and a lot of it worked.
There's a problem in that she is on and off with her abuse. It's all psychological abuse - insults and threats, and trying to sabotage anything good in my life - partner, family and work.
The police refused to help me because she's not threatening to kill me and not showing up on my door step. The same goes for solicitors. They are bouncing me back to the police.
Today my boss came to me to tell me she got more messages from the woman. I'm actually honest to god broken because it's something new again and out of the blue. Just to punish me more because I am happy without her. She's like shylock who wants a pound of flesh out of until she is happy.
How do I get her to stop. The authorities didn't help me when I needed help. She has no right to be contacting my employer.