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The use of the word 'Mom' in the UK.

39 replies

MrsPeacockInTheLibrary · 13/04/2021 20:36

I was having a debate earlier with a friend regarding the use of Americanisms in the UK and how certain words seem to have taken over or crept in. This is not the topic to debate here - but my general point was that lots of the words people complain are American are actually an Old English or similar word that were taken over by the settlers.

Anyway, I am sure that I have read on here ages ago that there are people who use the word 'Mom' in the UK. Possibly in the Midlands or the Black Country? I am not from anywhere near, or anywhere that does, but I thought I would post and ask to make sure I had not imagined it!

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Ilovemaisie · 13/04/2021 20:38

Yes - Birmingham, Black Country etc, Even Stratford upon Avon say Mom.

Blackopal · 13/04/2021 20:38

Yes, has always been 'mom' for me, West Midlands.

YippieKayakOtherBuckets · 13/04/2021 20:47

Yes - parts of Warwickshire and Worcestershire too.

StillAliveish · 13/04/2021 20:49

Definitely. I used to teach in Birmingham and all the kids said "mom". Nothing to do with America

InvincibleInvisibility · 13/04/2021 20:49

Agree. My 75 year old brummie dad writes mom to this day (to the frustration of my SE born mum)

NutellaEllaElla · 13/04/2021 20:49

While it is definitely a thing here in the west midlands, it is still a very different sound than the American "Mom" which is more like an aah sound. Here it really is Mom like Tom.

TheOneWithTheBigNose · 13/04/2021 20:49

Yes, large parts of the West Midlands use ‘mom’.
I’m East Midlands and we say ‘mum’.

DramaAlpaca · 13/04/2021 20:50

This subject pops up regularly on here.

'Mom' is regional to parts of England as pps have just said, and it is also used in Ireland.

Sparklingbrook · 13/04/2021 20:55

I was brought up in the West Midlands (Worcestershire) but it was 'Mum' and never 'Mom'.

gwilt · 13/04/2021 20:57

Yes. Work in the Midlands. When I told someone the "Standard English" version was 'mum', they didn't believe me Smile

BurbageBrook · 13/04/2021 20:58

Yes definitely, my DP is from Birmingham and says Mom. Even though he doesn’t have a Brummie accent at all.

BurbageBrook · 13/04/2021 21:00

@NutellaEllaElla but isn’t that just the accent of Americans anyway when saying ‘om’ sounds? Pretty sure an American also says Tom like ‘Tahhm’

louiseaaa · 13/04/2021 21:01

Southern softy married to a Brummie, we do the Mum/mom correction all the time with the kids.

TheLifeAndDeathBrigade · 13/04/2021 21:01

Yes we live in the Midlands but I was brought up down south. Desperately trying to stop my DS picking this up, I am very definitely Mum in amongst all the Moms.

NutellaEllaElla · 13/04/2021 21:02

[quote BurbageBrook]@NutellaEllaElla but isn’t that just the accent of Americans anyway when saying ‘om’ sounds? Pretty sure an American also says Tom like ‘Tahhm’[/quote]
Yes, but it never really occurred to me to equate the two because even though they're spelled the same, they sound miles apart.

toffeebutterpopcorn · 13/04/2021 21:02

Birmingham. NI too isn’t it?

YellowLunatic · 13/04/2021 21:02

Yep Mom here in the Midlands too. I prefer it to Mum personally Smile

Myusernameisnotmyusernameno · 13/04/2021 21:04

Yes I thought it was only in the US until I moved to the West Midlands. I come from the East Midlands originally and it’s not used there at all.

8dpwoah · 13/04/2021 21:06

I work in West Mids and you can tell when I've written up a family meeting as they are 'mum' (I'm very much not local) and almost all other people's notes are 'mom'. It's pronounced very short, no hanging onto the O sound.

RolloTomassi · 13/04/2021 21:07

I only know two UK people who say Mom, one from Birmingham and the other Solihull. I assume it's a regional thing!

Fashio · 13/04/2021 21:09

Brummies.

elsaesmeralda · 13/04/2021 21:09

West Midlands and I say mom, everyone i know says mom. I actually cannot say mum without it feeling strange !

Badabingbadabum · 13/04/2021 21:11

Yep, parts of West Mids it's mom. Mum is used as well. It is just a dialect thing, like Mam in parts of the North.

badlydrawnbear · 13/04/2021 21:13

Yes, DH spells it Mom. He is from the Black Country. My birthday/ Christmas etc cards from DC have always been written 'To Mommy.'

Aquagirl19 · 13/04/2021 21:13

West Midlands here. I prefer the term "mum" personally, but I know a lot of people who say "mom".