34 weeks pregnant- relationship breakdown

[Bubbleslee]

I'm 34 weeks pregnant and my partner has decided to leave me. I live in a one bedroom flat, and was finding it so difficult living with his cats, who he bought for breeding (which I was against). Also i asked him to help more round the flat as I'm struggling with bad sickness, which he never did. Anyway he told me i either accept the cats or he was going to leave me and move back home with his mum. This morning be packed his things up and left. I messaged him saying you could have asked how I was as I'm feeling really poorly today. He replied saying he doesn't care and we are over. Feeling numb and unsure what to do next. Any advice would be great.

It kind of sounds like you are best off out of it? Now you don’t need to live with the cats or a man that makes more work for you not less...?

I'm so sorry. Good riddance to this arsehole but pity you found out what he was so late.

get your breath, secure your home then secure your finances. Try to enforce his contribution.

Really sorry this has happened to you. Do not put this man on the birth certificate. Will only make your life harder.

Anyone who breeds cats is awful. Better off without him.

Leading up to today, me and him haven't been Intimate since 5 months ago as last time, it caused problem with the baby so was scared incase the same happened again. he would tell me every day how lucky I was he was a faithful guy otherwise he could have slept with others by now. But always when going out he would check other ladies which made me feel rubbish. He told me he can look just not touch. I've stopped going out now I'm so heavily pregnant. Feel awful

Okay, so the practical things...
Can you afford the flat without him?
Change the locks.
Do you have any family or friends who can support you?

When someone tells you who they are you should listen. He sounds like a prize arsehole and you will be better off without him.

Count your blessings, you are worth so much more than this nasty piece of work, Concentrate on you and your baby, life will get better without this toxic piece of shit, now he's gone you will actually feel so much better, the relief of not being answerable to someone who obviously holds such a low opinion of you and your child will soon become apparent. Cut him out of your life and look forward to a lovely life with your baby, you can make your own decisions, and make the best of your future, life is not over, it is just beginning, take care , and good luck