Advise

[AnneBoo]

Hi Its the first time I've used this. In 31st Octover 2014, I discovered my partner emailing an old flame via facebook. It subsequently turned out he met her a few days later and for several weeks, I didn't know if he planned on leaving me and our 7 year old daughter. This ex-girlfriend has been throw at me over th years before 2014 the words ' x wouldn't do that to me ir x wouldn't do that'. I know if other occasions where he has tried to contacted her over the last few years but no response. What hurst is that in 2014, he called her 'the love of his life'. I have now found out tiday ge gas contacted her again with the same sentiment. God no one knows what I have had to put up with since our daughter was birn, how he has treated my family etc

Hi first of all go carful about the details you post on here , the exact dates could mean this is outing esp if you add more personal info over the next few posts

Back to your issue, I think you need to have a honest talk with you DP it the fact that they have meet up a few times would have alarm bells ringing all over the place for me .
What do you want , ? that is the most important thing , Do you want to make your relationship work or do you want him out of your and your DD life , ?
think about this carefully and once you have decided , challenge him and dont back down or take the nothing happened or the it will never happen again lie unless you are 100% sure he means it and is willing to work hard on your relationship to rebuild your trust

Thank you for the advise. I will be careful what I post on here. I was angry and upset seeing he'd tried to contact her again. I am very weary of confronting him about this and possibly telling him to go - he has said certain things in the past which were unkind