Argh. I am frustrated with DH. We've been together 15+ years. Over that time he's frequently toyed with the idea of going veggie. I'm not veggie and don't want to be but grew up with my mum vegan and my dad not.
Every so often DH watches/ reads/ hears something which makes him think about it again so he says "I'm thinking of going veggie" I always say, ok, fair enough, whatever you want. I do the food shop (online) and ask if he needs/ wants anything and add that to the list. I work shifts (Dr) so we frequently cook and eat separately so he makes his own meal plans.
Everytime, without fail, he adds a few genetic items to the shopping then when it arrives with my meat and stuff he says "oh, I thought WE were going veggie".
Turns out that he can't be arsed to look up any veggie recipes and despite me not wanting to go veggie, seems to think I'll just do a shop for him which magically has veggie meals in! He goes on and on about it for a couple of weeks then forgets about it for a while until it comes up again.
I'm perfectly happy to eat veggy stuff he cooks (as long as it doesn't have my allergens in) and I'm happy to make him a veggie version of whatever I'm making when I cook. But why should I put in the effort when he won't?
Surely, if he wants to go veggie he doesn't need my permission or for me to actively do anything? He's a grown ass man who can eat whatever he does or doesn't want to?