I am so angry I can't even think clearly
Just found out I'm pregnant after 9 miscarriages and our baby last year was born sleeping at full term. She was absolutely perfect and I am so happy to be going through this again but I'm also terrified. We've only just found out and it's extremely early days, my DH told his brother we were thinking of trying again after losing our daughter. He said he was happy for us but he didn't seem it.
he then mentioned that if we were to get pregnant this year we should avoid announcing pregnancies in June and July, as their baby is due in June and they want 2 months of having a happy baby bubble with the attention on them, he then said xxx is really worried that what happened to you will happen to us and we just want to the support of the family and not have attention focused elsewhere..
This is so bizarre but whatever, however I will be 12 weeks in June and I need support after losing our daughter, if we listen to their requests I'll be telling close family who we want to support us and be there with us, that I'm pregnant at 22-28 weeks..
I wouldn't announce I'm pregnant at the birth or anything  promise! But can I just tell them after our scan (that I hope against hope is okay) and ignore their request ?
Also I don't even know where to start with the comments on my daughter. Fucking hell.