I think its a change thing, rather than any real reason, but I'm not 100% okay with it yet. He's texted me but at work so I haven't spoken about it yet, but I don't want to ruin it for him! It's not like I will deliberately, but feelings have a habit of making themselves known without actually saying it. So ideally I want to work through before he gets home and is all excited!
Anyway. He's not been happy at his job, so I've been encouraging looking elsewhere. Part of this, I saw and linked him to a job at my workplace. Sounds like he's now been offered it with a reasonable significant payrise.
All good.
But I'm now worried I've somehow done something terrible.
He won't work with me (it's a big company, and our roles aren't related so would rarely, if ever, cross paths), but he'd be back wfh at least to start with...certainly will be an adjustment period.
I feel like we've inadvertently put all our eggs in one basket, company wise....but its a big company, doing reasonably well.
I worried he'll hate this new role or won't do well, and it will be all my fault because I suggested it.
I'm not entirely sure what I'm hoping people will say... I want to feel truly happy for him, but instead I'm worrying about probably nothing.