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My baby boy is being cremated tomorrow.

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Lillygolightly · 25/03/2021 23:15

My sweet baby boy is being cremated tomorrow morning at 9:15am. He was born too early to stay in my arms as he should have done, and I am so heartbroken.

I’ve only just found out the time and date of his cremation this evening. I though I would have more notice, time to plan and do something special in his honour and to remember him. Sadly that is not the case, so I thought I would turn to the power of mumsnet and ask if all you lovely people could spare a thought and wish my baby boy good luck on his journey to the stars tomorrow. It would just be so lovely and would mean an awful lot to me to know that he is being thought of tomorrow.

His name is Alexander and he was born on 16/02/21 💙

Thank you in advance.

OP posts:
Penguin81 · 26/03/2021 06:34

I am thinking of you and baby Alexander tomorrow, and my love goes to your family also. I'm so sorry xxx

CarnageAtTheEasterEggHunt · 26/03/2021 06:34

My thoughts are with you all and Alexander today.
I am so incredibly sorry 💙 xxxxx

Lantanacamara · 26/03/2021 06:35

So sorry for the loss of your beautiful son. Lots of love to you and Alexander xxx

TopTabby · 26/03/2021 06:37

So sorry this has happened.
I will be thinking of Alexander Bear & of you. X

mellongoose · 26/03/2021 06:37

He lives inside your heart now. It feels as though part of you has died.

Feel what you need to feel. Accept help from others. There is no feeling like it. I can tell you it will pass eventually and there will come a day where it becomes bearable.

He lives in you. Love him there xx

FallingStar · 26/03/2021 06:38

I'm so sorry for your loss, thinking of Alexander today. Take care of yourself xx Daffodil

2021isalsorubbish · 26/03/2021 06:39

You and baby Alexander will be in my thoughts and prayers x

Misspacorabanne · 26/03/2021 06:41

I'm so sorry for your loss. Both you and your beautiful baby boy are in my thoughts!
Sending you love and strength for today!
Flowers

SugarCoatIt · 26/03/2021 06:41

Thinking of you and your beautiful baby boy Alexander xxx

Ragdoll27 · 26/03/2021 06:43

Sleep tight Alexander. Your son will always be with you, in your heart ❤

Gah81 · 26/03/2021 06:43

I am thinking of him now and will be thinking of him at 9.15am. I am so sorry for your loss.

Igmum · 26/03/2021 06:44

You and beautiful baby Alexander are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending love ❤️ Thanks

Whiskeylover45 · 26/03/2021 06:44

I'm thinking of Alexander and you today, as your little boy rises above. I'm so sorry OP. Handhold freely given

Bellablahhole · 26/03/2021 06:44

I'm so sorry for your loss Flowers. Thinking of baby Alexander, you and your family today. I will light a candle later for your beautiful boy 💙

LilyTheSavage · 26/03/2021 06:50

I look at that first bright star each evening and think it's my son Paddy who died not so long ago in 2013. He will look after Alexander. Sending love OP.

Lulu1919 · 26/03/2021 06:51

No words but sending love and a hand hold.
Think of the things you would have done with him and send those thoughts with him.
X

whiteshark · 26/03/2021 06:52

Thinking of you ❤️

LazyDaisy22 · 26/03/2021 06:53

I will be thinking of you and your lovely Alexander later this morning. ❤️ 💐

percheron67 · 26/03/2021 06:55

Alexander is a super name for your tiny. Thinking of you and him.

Arbadacarba · 26/03/2021 06:56

I'm so sorry you have lost Alexander and wish you strength as you say goodbye today. Flowers

mummywithtwokidsplusdog · 26/03/2021 06:58

I will be thinking of you and your precious boy, Alexander. ❤️ 💐

Aneley · 26/03/2021 06:59

I am so very sorry! Flowers

We will be thinking about your beautiful baby Alexander today at 9.15. A little candle is lit for him. You are and always will be his mummy and I am sure he knows how loved he is.

LMcmahon · 26/03/2021 06:59

I will light a candle for you, baby Alexander.

sandgrown · 26/03/2021 07:01

Thinking of you and your baby boy x

Letsgoforaskip · 26/03/2021 07:02

Thinking of you, Alexander and everyone who loves you and sending lots of love. I’m so very sorry for your heartbreak. He will always be a part of you 💐❤️