Started work after 7 years

[Mol1628]

I need some words of wisdom from those that have done this. I’m so scared!
Got a 20hr a week job. It’s 5 days a week 4 hours a day, varying shifts (retail)
Feeling anxious. Sad about the fact I no longer have my own schedule, stressed at the thought of having to deal with who picks up the kids from school (some days I will be able to others I won’t)

I thought it would be a good idea but now I’m just feeling scared and sad and I want to walk in and quit and pretend I was never so stupid as to get a job.

Husband says I should just stick at it. I’m aware as the children get older they’ll need me less and I need to make a start. I am depressed at home and unfulfilled. But at the same time it’s comfortable and easy!

Congratulations on the new job!

Change is always scary no matter what people say - sounds like it is the right time for you for this step, and give yourself time to ease into the change

Well done. Definitely stick with it for at least 6 months before giving it up.

You will be glad once you start. Might make new friends social element of work is important. Extra money. You will work everything else out.

Thank you. I should have said it’s 12 weeks temporary job and the potential to be permanent after that time so I guess I can decide after 12 weeks if I can manage that long!